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kaaatriiinaaa

PostPosted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 8:48 am


So my... Well now ex-boyfriend of 7 months, I still love him and his mother is the one that made us break up. I can't tell if he still likes me. He flirts with me all the time. But he acts all un-interested when we text... It's weird because when we actually hang out he's all flirty and we can't date for a year, because of his mother.. I don't understand. The mother made us break-up because she saw me tickling this kid, he's like my brother and he's my ex's best friend, and she took it as flirting. I wasn't flirting with my brother! She convinced my ex that I cheated on him too.

Please help me, what do I do?
PostPosted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 2:35 pm


well..you should tell him the truth and if he really cares about you then he'd believe you and forgive you. if not, he might not be worth your time >_<

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 4:57 pm


Well I think you should tell him what happened, and ask him if he ever thought of being anything more than friends, and that if it was okay if you feel like you should be more than friends. I would say to his mom "Oh please, I dont date anyone in My Own Family, why would I flirt with my own sibling?" Then I would tell him that his mom shouldn't get in between our relationship like Romeo and Juliet. (Well they both died, but that isn't the point)...  
PostPosted: Thu Apr 01, 2010 10:57 pm


He says he believes me. And his mom, like, really hates me. I'm not sure why. I just don't understand this whole thing. I really don't know how to go about the situation anymore..

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 12:32 pm


Confront him and talk to him about it.
If you never do, you'll never get the answers on how he truly feels.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 5:27 pm


Hm. Try to find out exactly what makes his mom hate you, and try to see if you can find a way to make her like you. Then, there might be less problems between you and him, and your relationship, as far as she's concerned, if you know what i mean. Hope this helps. =^-^=

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 6:56 pm


Shadow 0f 0nyx
Hm. Try to find out exactly what makes his mom hate you, and try to see if you can find a way to make her like you. Then, there might be less problems between you and him, and your relationship, as far as she's concerned, if you know what i mean. Hope this helps. =^-^=

^ this is good advice
PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 7:17 pm


tell him the truth to convince him to love u again

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kaaatriiinaaa

PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 11:07 pm


Much much easier said than done./:
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tell him the truth to convince him to love u again
PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 6:54 pm


Tell Him You Still Love Him.Explain The Situation.If He Loves You,He'll Understand.If He Doesnt Understand,He's Not Worth Your Time.

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 05, 2010 6:56 pm


Yes you should tell him the truth .
PostPosted: Tue Apr 06, 2010 10:16 pm


All I can say is tell him the truth, remind him he shouldn't let his mother do that, and gauge the reactions. That'll tell ya if he's worth it or not.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 06, 2010 10:23 pm


i have the same problem with my ex. it started with his father, and after his father disappeared his mother started to freak. and so now we are not together but we are off and on. i know he doesnt believe what his mother is saying cause the s*** that she is saying isnt true, but he listens to her just to make her happy. and it ticks me off. but since we are off and on, what mama doesnt know wont hurt me. so i know what your doing, i say try to date without her knowing, or just find a new guy.
PostPosted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 6:14 pm


meowmakatrina09
Much much easier said than done./:
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tell him the truth to convince him to love u again

Don't convince him to love you again. If he really does love you, he will understand everything that's going on. His mother could be:
A) A control freak.
B) Wants to pick out the girl for him.
C) A total b***h
I'm not going to sugar code it for you, because that can usually be the reasoning behind things. I know you like him, but if he can't seem to understand and try to love you back. Then you have to move on, it might be painful, but it's something you'll have to do.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 28, 2010 6:42 pm


meowmakatrina09
Much much easier said than done./:
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tell him the truth to convince him to love u again

well im just trying to help u with ur problem....
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