I don't know what to do :(

[IAzn_Jennifer]

Ok, my friend's crush likes me i mean loves me and askes me out and i didn't know what to say(beacuz he is soo hot) then i had to give up sad and i just said no and he is crazy over me and yea and he is like my best buddie
(as in friend) i didnt know what happened to him and my friend wont talk to me any more or sit with me at lunch or at the churh meetings

what should i do ?  

[Nocturnabelle]

It Isnt Your Fault He Likes You.Your Friend Shouldnt Be Mad At You.Explain The Situation To Both Of Them.Your Friend Cant Force This Guy To Like Her.Talk To Them,Explain That You Want To Be Friends With The Both Of Them and Dont Want Something Like This Getting In The Way.Do As Your Heart Says,No One Can Tell You What To Do.We Can Only Give You Advice.Good Luck.I Hope Everything Works Out For You.  

[Tumbling Stars]

Talk it out with them. I wish you the best!  

[Chibi_Sunflower]

I agree with LittleMissHeartBroken225 & Tumbling Stars, you need to try talk to them. From what you've said your friend really shouldn't be mad at you. I mean, he came on to you and you said no to him.

Your friend might need some time to calm down and become rational again but if she is really your friend then she should listen to you. As that old saying goes, boys come and go but friends are for ever heart

Good luck ^_^  

[Basilia Ann E]

IAzn_Jessica

Ok, my friend's crush likes me i mean loves me and askes me out and i didn't know what to say(beacuz he is soo hot) then i had to give up sad and i just said no and he is crazy over me and yea and he is like my best buddie
(as in friend) i didnt know what happened to him and my friend wont talk to me any more or sit with me at lunch or at the churh meetings

what should i do ?

You need to talk to your friend.

While, crushes may be intense, they are not a relationship. The 1st step to a good relationship is friendship. It's weird, but the romance stuff just doesn't work. You can never see who the person really is. Hanging out watching TV will.

If your friend still has a crush, she needs to try and meet him (just to say hi). Sometimes, that's enough to end a crush. If you do this together (as a group) it's more relaxed - and not a serious (less pressure).

Hot does not mean that you will get along. It also doesn't mean that he's a nice guy. I know a number of "church" guys who - are one way inside church - but are nasty (to girls) outside. They will tell girls anything so long as they can get something out of it.

From what I've seen of hot guys (in my family - cousins) they usually have one main girlfriend and several "options" on the side.  

[xX-cO0k1e-Xx]

everything changes you know
and everybody is different
she might be the jelus type
but well you know if they want to be that way
they can

friendship changes too  

[Topaz896]

i had the same problem...in a way. I couldnt date at the time and i still can't date now. but when he asked me I WUZ READY! i explained him EVERYTHING!!! i knew him since the 2nd grade. He wuz my bestfriend, i guess. HE COMEPLETLEY UNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING!! and now we have been waiting for 1month, 4weeks and 3days smile U SHOULD TALK TO HIM!....just like i think everyone said....AND EXPLAIN TO HIM EVERYTHING!!!!!

the nest time u see him...just tell him u want to talk to him. DONT HESITATE OR ITLL BE TOO LATE! sad  

[twilight_lover_5000]

LittleMissHeartBroken225

It Isnt Your Fault He Likes You.Your Friend Shouldnt Be Mad At You.Explain The Situation To Both Of Them.Your Friend Cant Force This Guy To Like Her.Talk To Them,Explain That You Want To Be Friends With The Both Of Them and Dont Want Something Like This Getting In The Way.Do As Your Heart Says,No One Can Tell You What To Do.We Can Only Give You Advice.Good Luck.I Hope Everything Works Out For You.

agreed  

[Zenally]

Tough one. Now, the right thing to say would be to go with your friend all the way, but seeing as you didn't do anything wrong and she won't even talk to you, that may not be right. Then again, I don't know the boy, he could really be nasty, how much does he mean to you as a friend? Only you know how long you've known both people, and how well you get along. By all means, get them both in a room and talk it out, but you may want to have your priorities straight before, just in case of dire emergency.  

[Heart_Broken653]

the best thing to do is talk to ur friends about it.  

[Shakespeares_Sister]

That same situation happened to me, there was this guy named james I liked him a lot and he liked me, but my bff liked him as well so i stopped persuing him because she was my bff from 7th grade, he expalined he didnt like her and she was debastated, but later on she found the love of her life. Me and James never hooked up because his best friend liked me as well so we were screwed, I used to wonder what wouldve happened if we were to ignore what was keeping us from getting together, but you know what everything happens for a reason. Now I'm with the guy I love, we were going to go through the same problem because he told me his bff liked me but he told him that i was his woman and he wasnt going to give me up because i was the one. 4laugh  

[llxStarscreamxll]

well say that you have something to talk about with her and tell her what happened then probably she understand and go talk with him or something...... smile  

[vampires_cant_be_tamed20]

id say talk it out with both of them and just explain the situation. ive been there, done that, and dont want to do it again. i hate that type of situation. talk it out and hope that talking works out for you.