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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2010 8:35 pm
um ok .
so three and a half years ago, i was online in towns and i met my friends friend. his name is William cows.
we became bffs for a year, he makes me feel better about myself.
then we started dating for two years an a half. we gone through hard ships. of losing the internet. and life issues. and i am worried because he has lost his internet for almost a year. D:
i will wait as long as i can for him. i love him with all my heart
but last week i saw a posted pic of him and a girl hugging from his rl best friends facebook account.
i think he is cheating on me
but then again the girl in the picture might b his cousin.
am i over thinking?  
PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2010 11:47 pm
I wouldn't jump to conclusions or anything like that.
That might be a relative or something.
You may just have to wait and see what happens.
If you know him enough, and trust him,
then you would know he wouldn't cheat on you like that.
Umm, I'm not that great at giving advice,
when it comes to relationships that is.
I don't know if I'm helping. D:
I try, though.
 

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 02, 2010 4:09 pm
try to contact him, and ask him. He wouldn't ditch u like that with out even letting u know, if he cares about u . that would make him a coward. if he really cares about u he would atleast contact u , as soon as his internet get up. if he hs not talked to u in a while, i would worry a little.. but not too much, it could just be his relative.

Best thing to do is ask like: something is bothering me, can we talk?  
PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 4:53 pm
So wait, correct me if I'm wrong- you only know this guy online? Like, you don't actually know each other in real life?
Bad idea.
First of, a lot of people a). aren't who they claim to be online, and b). don't actually consider dating online to be 'real dating'. As in, some guy might have a girlfriend online and a girlfriend in real life, because, let's face it, he probably doesn't ever expect to see his online girl in the real world.
So that could very well be his girlfriend in real life. Or his cousin. How will you ever know? He might lie about it.

Now, I realize that what I just said was probably not what you wanted to hear, but that's how I give advice. Realistically. But my point is, dating online rarely works out, especially on a game. But try talking to him about it. Just plain talking generally works in all situations.

Just my $00.2. Sorry if I sounded depressing.  

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 5:16 pm
I would say ask him, but it might be weird or awkward. Try asking someone he knows, like a friend and see if they know. That's what i would do.  
PostPosted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 5:42 pm
ASK HIM...
You really can't tell if he is or not.
Could be a cousin or a good best friend of his.
Then it could be his sister.
Don't jump to conclusions.
If he loves you, he wouldn't cheat on you wink  

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 7:18 pm
I would ask him,or maybe see what happens.  
PostPosted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 8:26 pm
I would ask him who the gurk is then take it from there dump him  

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PostPosted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 9:29 pm
I would ask him but he probably might lie. However if he loves you, he probably would tell you the truth and would not be cheating on you at the same time.  
PostPosted: Mon Jun 14, 2010 8:59 am
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So wait, correct me if I'm wrong- you only know this guy online? Like, you don't actually know each other in real life?
Bad idea.
First of, a lot of people a). aren't who they claim to be online, and b). don't actually consider dating online to be 'real dating'. As in, some guy might have a girlfriend online and a girlfriend in real life, because, let's face it, he probably doesn't ever expect to see his online girl in the real world.
So that could very well be his girlfriend in real life. Or his cousin. How will you ever know? He might lie about it.

Now, I realize that what I just said was probably not what you wanted to hear, but that's how I give advice. Realistically. But my point is, dating online rarely works out, especially on a game. But try talking to him about it. Just plain talking generally works in all situations.

Just my $00.2. Sorry if I sounded depressing.
um ok . i no everything about him. if he did have a gf in rl then he wouldnt bother with me. he's b bousting about it. and i have pictures and i webcam with him so i no for sure he's who he says he is.
and um i find it offensive to tell me think realistically. when im a realist myself and im finding it hard to believe that im dating online. i try to tell myself not to give in to my insticts and dump him. im trying so i dont need someone else other then myself to say its a bad idea.  

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 2:59 pm
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um ok .
so three and a half years ago, i was online in towns and i met my friends friend. his name is William cows.
we became bffs for a year, he makes me feel better about myself.
then we started dating for two years an a half. we gone through hard ships. of losing the internet. and life issues. and i am worried because he has lost his internet for almost a year. D:
i will wait as long as i can for him. i love him with all my heart
but last week i saw a posted pic of him and a girl hugging from his rl best friends facebook account.
i think he is cheating on me
but then again the girl in the picture might b his cousin.
am i over thinking?
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                                              Hes hugging a girl I dont think thats a crime
                                              Hugs mean nothing sweetie if he kissed her on the lips now thats a different story

                                              I do not think thats very smart you know dating a guy you "know" from the internet
                                              People can lie and I dont care if you "think" you know him but just to let you know many girls on the news thought the same way as you did but they just ran into trouble (not very pretty)
                                              And if you do think he is cheating on you then maybe he is after all he is a boy FROM the internet and he can lie who he is or if he loves you
                                              Trust is a very important part in a relationship and I dont think you can truly trust someone unless you know this guy in real life (And dont even think about meeting him please because you never know and its for your own safety!)

                                              And love is too much of a strong word
                                              Trust me you dont know what love really is when your olderUser Image




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PostPosted: Tue Jun 22, 2010 10:40 pm
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iMiona
um ok .
so three and a half years ago, i was online in towns and i met my friends friend. his name is William cows.
we became bffs for a year, he makes me feel better about myself.
then we started dating for two years an a half. we gone through hard ships. of losing the internet. and life issues. and i am worried because he has lost his internet for almost a year. D:
i will wait as long as i can for him. i love him with all my heart
but last week i saw a posted pic of him and a girl hugging from his rl best friends facebook account.
i think he is cheating on me
but then again the girl in the picture might b his cousin.
am i over thinking?
¢ιηηαмση тσαѕт_ѕayѕ ;






                                              Hes hugging a girl I dont think thats a crime
                                              Hugs mean nothing sweetie if he kissed her on the lips now thats a different story

                                              I do not think thats very smart you know dating a guy you "know" from the internet
                                              People can lie and I dont care if you "think" you know him but just to let you know many girls on the news thought the same way as you did but they just ran into trouble (not very pretty)
                                              And if you do think he is cheating on you then maybe he is after all he is a boy FROM the internet and he can lie who he is or if he loves you
                                              Trust is a very important part in a relationship and I dont think you can truly trust someone unless you know this guy in real life (And dont even think about meeting him please because you never know and its for your own safety!)

                                              And love is too much of a strong word
                                              Trust me you dont know what love really is when your olderUser Image




It's a girl thing / Bootygrabs

um ok. i know its all true. but i webcam with him so i no its him. so the fact that who he says who he is, is not a lie. i dont no about the rest though. thanx for telling me i apreciate it.  

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:01 pm
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                                              no problemo heart
                                              But i really hope you think hard about relationships on the 'net at 15.User Image




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PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:34 pm
Talk it out with him.
And forget about this CRAP with saying you are too young to love.
Heck, my mother got married when she was SIXTEEN, and she is 50 years old and they are still going strong!
There are different kinds of love, that is true.
But if you feel so strongly about him, talk to him. Work it out with him. It might be a relative, true. It only matters HOW they hug...if you know what I'm saying?
I hope this helps.  

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 6:37 pm
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um ok .
so three and a half years ago, i was online in towns and i met my friends friend. his name is William cows.
we became bffs for a year, he makes me feel better about myself.
then we started dating for two years an a half. we gone through hard ships. of losing the internet. and life issues. and i am worried because he has lost his internet for almost a year. D:
i will wait as long as i can for him. i love him with all my heart
but last week i saw a posted pic of him and a girl hugging from his rl best friends facebook account.
i think he is cheating on me
but then again the girl in the picture might b his cousin.
am i over thinking?
¢ιηηαмση тσαѕт_ѕayѕ ;






                                              Hes hugging a girl I dont think thats a crime
                                              Hugs mean nothing sweetie if he kissed her on the lips now thats a different story

                                              I do not think thats very smart you know dating a guy you "know" from the internet
                                              People can lie and I dont care if you "think" you know him but just to let you know many girls on the news thought the same way as you did but they just ran into trouble (not very pretty)
                                              And if you do think he is cheating on you then maybe he is after all he is a boy FROM the internet and he can lie who he is or if he loves you
                                              Trust is a very important part in a relationship and I dont think you can truly trust someone unless you know this guy in real life (And dont even think about meeting him please because you never know and its for your own safety!)

                                              And love is too much of a strong word
                                              Trust me you dont know what love really is when your olderUser Image




It's a girl thing / Bootygrabs

um ok. i know its all true. but i webcam with him so i no its him. so the fact that who he says who he is, is not a lie. i dont no about the rest though. thanx for telling me i apreciate it.


Not true, CT. You don't have to be a certain age to feel love. Or to know what it means. For relationships, you work from the bond, and from the love. Nothing else matters.  
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