It's stressful...

[NeverMore42_6_6_6]

Why is it that if someone looses a gf or bf they become total assholes and think there will never be another? Isn't that the whole point of being on this big fing planet and having this many people on it?!  

[Corruptor of Worlds]

Well I can't speak from experience, but...

If they're trully into that person, shouldn't they be down about it?
Most people just don't know how to express themselves without acting like they're mad and the world is out to get them.

But if they did just jump into a new relationship, wouldn't that just be a rebound?

If they didn't care like that, then the relationship wouldn't last long anyway, right?  

[purpleravenhawk]

For once, dude is right. xd

Anyway, people often react to grief in an aggressive, angry manner. It just takes time to deal with it.  

[Rinioa]

I agree with what everyone else has to say here.
If you really-deeply care about someone and then loose them (in any way) you're going to feel pain and anger. You start thinking the worse thoughts; "Is there something wrong with me?" ... "Will anyone ever love me, really?" -Things like that can go through your head, which can trigger depression and/or anger.

If the person who lost their beloved is a close friend of yours, then the best thing you can do for them is to be there for them. Show them that you care and assist them in getting over it.

Healing takes time.

❤ - - - Rinioa - - - ❤

 

[Corruptor of Worlds]

Yeah, just be there for them, no matter how much of an a** they are at the moment.

(woohoo, I was right!!! - that doesn't happen very often, huh?)