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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 9:45 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 9:57 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 1:52 pm
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 5:01 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 8:11 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 8:52 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 14, 2011 5:28 am
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I completely agree with Lilith and Lady Kira. You definitely need to have a sit-down talk with her about this new rule. You're obviously over 18; you're an adult now. Like Kira said, "If you wanted rules like that, you'd still be living with your parents." And it is ridiculous that she went through your trash.
Do you guys have conflicting views regarding religion and/or premarital sex? Maybe explain that you respect her views and feelings about this, but that you are also paying rent and that you feel that your freedom shouldn't be restricted thus. You said you are quite discreet... she should have nothing to worry about.
Turning it around, I can see it from her viewpoint, especially if she's under 21: "My roommate is having sex in the room next to mine." Maybe it's just new to her. I'd give her time to adjust to the idea, but tell her you don't agree with this new rule and will not adhere to it. But do institute a rule saying "No rummaging through each others trash." (That should have been a given, but maybe some people have less respect for privacy than others, and it needs to be written out.)
If she just can't live with you having your boyfriend visit overnight, you may have to agree to disagree and find a new roommate or get your own place. Ask her to finish out any lease you have so neither of your lease histories are damaged, then move on. Try not to let it totally ruin your friendship, though; if you aren't living together, this issue shouldn't be an issue anymore (unless it's the religion and/or premarital sex thing, then that could be tricky).
Good luck.
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 6:44 am
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 10:43 am
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Posted: Thu Jan 20, 2011 6:30 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 22, 2011 10:03 am
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Posted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 9:01 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 18, 2011 3:02 pm
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