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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2011 5:18 am
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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2011 9:05 pm
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It depends on the mental maturity of the people having sex. The earliest I believe you SHOULD have sex is about 16 to me, but I've heard of people doing it earlier. Before they have sex, they should understand the social, legal, mental, and physical implications of what they're doing. I'm not in the mood to list the social, mental, or physical ones, so I'll just the two big legal one: Marriage: You can legally be married at the age of 16 (Number not solid, I'd have to look it up.) in many states, but you must have the consent of the legal guardians. Without marriage: Anyone underage having sex with anyone else should be wary of the term "Statutory Rape". Here's the Wikipedia page and a page from Sexlaws.org to help those who do not know what the term means. Wikipedia: Statutory Rape Sexlaws.org: What is Statutory Rape?
If you still plan on having sex before the "safe age" as I like to call it, then you need to be prepared for the "what ifs", as in, what if someone finds out and you are reported.... I'm not trying to say it shouldn't happen, I myself had underage sex, but both of us knew what we were getting into and took the needed precautions. Trying to go into it saying "We love each other, so that'll get us through" is not only naive, but dangerous. Keep it safe and stay happy people, you only live once, make sure it's worth it.
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 9:30 am
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Jonstalker62 It depends on the mental maturity of the people having sex. The earliest I believe you SHOULD have sex is about 16 to me, but I've heard of people doing it earlier. Before they have sex, they should understand the social, legal, mental, and physical implications of what they're doing. I'm not in the mood to list the social, mental, or physical ones, so I'll just the two big legal one: Marriage: You can legally be married at the age of 16 (Number not solid, I'd have to look it up.) in many states, but you must have the consent of the legal guardians. Without marriage: Anyone underage having sex with anyone else should be wary of the term "Statutory Rape". Here's the Wikipedia page and a page from Sexlaws.org to help those who do not know what the term means. Wikipedia: Statutory RapeSexlaws.org: What is Statutory Rape?If you still plan on having sex before the "safe age" as I like to call it, then you need to be prepared for the "what ifs", as in, what if someone finds out and you are reported.... I'm not trying to say it shouldn't happen, I myself had underage sex, but both of us knew what we were getting into and took the needed precautions. Trying to go into it saying "We love each other, so that'll get us through" is not only naive, but dangerous. Keep it safe and stay happy people, you only live once, make sure it's worth it.
Well I agree with this entirely I mean you should be perpared for the 'What ifs' and then 'Buts' to come in you life
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 11:20 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 12:52 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2011 9:43 am
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Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:34 pm
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The reason we have such things as "Age of Consent Laws" is to be able to legally define gray areas under black and white terms. Which is important. The goal is to protect youth from exploitation. A twenty year trying to convince a fourteen year old to have sex, giving her some nonsense about love and romance, before she has enough life experience to make wise choices. Maybe she does. But we can't know that.
So, we make laws that error on the side of caution. I follow and support age of consent laws.
Having sex before the age of consent is a questionable area, but like with all, "Don't be an idiot". I'd say wait until your sure your ready, but you can't know that for yourself, people always judge themselves on a different set of standards.
Personally, as much as I enjoy sex, I think people have an unhealthy fixation on it. Crazed religious fanatics wear virginity like a badge of honor, whereas other are made to feel awkward and pathetic if they don't lose it fast enough. Really, what's wrong with these people? Sex happens when it does. Maybe making the right decisions is based on not caring so much about when the decision is made, or how, but allowing yourself to develop as an adult naturally.
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Posted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:47 pm
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