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`The Captains Wench`

PostPosted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 8:48 pm
I've never dated a girl my entire life.
But very recently, I found out that a girl likes me and would like to go out with me.

I think I really like her too. But..I really can't date her because I'm afraid of what my friends/family would think.

I know my family would constantly make fun of me for it, and they'd never EVER let me live it down...

And my friends, I'm not sure if they'll see me the same way anymore..

I really think I like this girl a lot..
But I just don't know what to do...
Can anyone give some advice?
 
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 12:25 am
You should go for what you want.
And not care what others think.
But...
It depends if your friends are okay with the whole thing.
I guess.

n - n.
But that's what Sarah did.
Consulted her friends, and ignored what her family thought.
Although.
It was short lived.
D x.
But because of her family issues and stuff.
x P.

Gl, gl, gl, though.
<3.

 

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 10:33 am
Why would they not let you live it down? WHat is wrong with the girl? Is she ugly? None of that should matter, if you really do like her. You should do what you feel is best, don't worry about what other peoples think. And, if they do give you hard time about, tell 'em to go ******** theirselves! whee It's always worked for me.  
PostPosted: Tue Jul 04, 2006 7:12 pm
hmm.
adivice: follow your heart.
get to know her, and if your feelings continue, then admit to your friends that you're bi.
if they have a problem.. well then its up to you to deal with it.
and your family? screw them! just don't mention it until its serious.
then tell a close family member your bi, and you are seeing a girl.
see how (s)he takes it, and go from there.

but don't hide your sexuality. express it all you need.
and if your not sure your bi, experimenting won't hurt.
 

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BlairyFairy

PostPosted: Wed Jul 05, 2006 12:04 am
I think you should go out with her, who cares what other people think? It's who you are, they can't control you or your actions.  
PostPosted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 2:59 pm
i say dont worry about wat others think, if u truly like this girl go for it. ppl may make fun of u and bug u about it, but this is wat u feel if they dont like it the can back off, its ur life, u can do wat u want with it  

Dark_Crudus


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 17, 2006 6:46 am
go for it. who cares what others think! if your heart says to, do it because there may not be another chance 3nodding  
PostPosted: Fri Jul 21, 2006 12:26 pm
I think you should go for it. your friends and family love you and will respect your decision.  

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xXxPansyxXx

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:36 pm
kotahunter
I think you should go for it. your friends and family love you and will respect your decision.


and if they dont just ignore them... go with whats better for you not them...  
PostPosted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 9:35 am
`The Captains Wench`
I've never dated a girl my entire life.
But very recently, I found out that a girl likes me and would like to go out with me.

I think I really like her too. But..I really can't date her because I'm afraid of what my friends/family would think.

I know my family would constantly make fun of me for it, and they'd never EVER let me live it down...

And my friends, I'm not sure if they'll see me the same way anymore..

I really think I like this girl a lot..
But I just don't know what to do...
Can anyone give some advice?



go for it
 

psycho_sharpie


Nagaru Tensei

PostPosted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 9:49 am
Yea. Go for It.

And you will find out who really are you friends.

I hope everything works out. whee  
PostPosted: Mon Jul 31, 2006 9:01 pm
get to know her as a friend more.once your sure about your feelings go to your friends & fam & tell them straight out that you like a girl & theyll just have to deal with it because thats the way you are.if they cant accept you for you then they dont matter.then get with her.you may loose some friends but those are not real friends if theyre not willing to stand by you & support you.  

bleeding unicorn


Phimms

PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 5:17 pm
Argg, grow a backbone, don't let your parents or friends rule your life!
Yet then again, this doesn't mean be angry at them or anything.

And this is the end of my rant!
Good Luck.
 
PostPosted: Sun Jan 21, 2007 5:27 pm
`The Captains Wench`
I've never dated a girl my entire life.
But very recently, I found out that a girl likes me and would like to go out with me.

I think I really like her too. But..I really can't date her because I'm afraid of what my friends/family would think.

I know my family would constantly make fun of me for it, and they'd never EVER let me live it down...

And my friends, I'm not sure if they'll see me the same way anymore..

I really think I like this girl a lot..
But I just don't know what to do...
Can anyone give some advice?


If its your friends and family, they'd just be happy your dating, you'll get jokes and everything, but just go for it, if they abandon you over it, unless they feel she really is bad for you, then they are fair weather friends, and your better off.  

Rellik San
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