Damnit.! I Can Never Get This Right!

[Phoenix of Kurai]

I don't know if its weird that I (a guy) can never seem to find a girl that I would like to date. It might because I live in a hick town where most people are trashy, preppy, losers or goths (hope their arent goths that are offended by this I just dont like goths sweatdrop ). Or if I'm picky but I tend to need someone intelligent; emo/punk-ish; and pretty attractive. Is that too much to ask for? I meet girls like that but they never live where I do. Except for one ( Another Situation). I am straight. Any other people out there who are cant find 'the girl'?  

[SARSSS]

FIRST:
Stop looking for girls who are emo/punkish.
IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.

SECOND:
Don't make someone feel like they have to be pretty or attractive to have a chance with you.
IT HURTS TO FEEL UGLY.

 

[rikaLeshay]

+ roffle!face

FIRST:
Stop looking for girls who are emo/punkish.
IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.

we shouldn't do that? eek oh crap.......
(well except i go for boys...most of the time)

 

[SARSSS]

Because you're just judging people on how they look.
Not who they are.

It's pretty damn selfish.
];.
In my opinion.

 

[rikaLeshay]

+ roffle!face

Because you're just judging people on how they look.
Not who they are.

It's pretty damn selfish.
];.
In my opinion.

well looks are the first thing you go by a lot,unless they're your friend first.
but then if you do know them and they're not your type and you only like them for looks is selfish  

[BlairyFairy]

Phoenix of Kurai

I don't know if its weird that I (a guy) can never seem to find a girl that I would like to date. It might because I live in a hick town where most people are trashy, preppy, losers or goths (hope their arent goths that are offended by this I just dont like goths sweatdrop ). Or if I'm picky but I tend to need someone intelligent; emo/punk-ish; and pretty attractive. Is that too much to ask for? I meet girls like that but they never live where I do. Except for one ( Another Situation). I am straight. Any other people out there who are cant find 'the girl'?

I love goths..
Anyways, I can't find 'the guy'
I live in a "hick" town also, it sucks...
But I'll find one.  

[BlairyFairy]

+ roffle!face

FIRST:
Stop looking for girls who are emo/punkish.
IT DOESN'T WORK THAT WAY.

SECOND:
Don't make someone feel like they have to be pretty or attractive to have a chance with you.
IT HURTS TO FEEL UGLY.

You really don't have a say in what he wants in a girl, he can look for whatever he wants.  

[Bottine]

He can -look- for what he wants, but if he's being picky, he can't come complaining when he doesn't find anything. =3

Beside, she was just giving off tips. XP



I'm with her on this one, though. While looks are important, don't make them too much a priority, you might get better results then. ^_^
 

[SARSSS]

@Pickles:
I know I don't.
But it is quite...Hm...Discriminative, maybe?
-can't think of the word now-

@Poppy:
<3.
x 3.
Much better said.
: D.

 

[Archangel Izual]

Look for things about a persons personality that you like..... if you find a person that matches the kind of personality you'd like to be with.... i can almost gaurantee you, you'll be pleased with their looks.

hard to explain... just... believe me.
I guess you could call it "fate"...

but one thing... "love" isn't about you.
It's about them. You don't love a person by feeling good about it.. You love a person by making THEM feel good. I'm not a christian anymore... but in the Old King James bible's for most of the times you'd find the word "love" in the modern translations, you'd see "charity", as in the act of giving to another person.

I believe finding love is about making another person feel good...
but as much as I believe that, you should find somebody you'll be happy with also. (but again... the priority should be your counterpart, not your preferences..)  

[Rellik San]

Maybe you should lower your standards, there are only a few sure fire rules when looking for a girl. And those are just common sense things like...


Never date a friends ex, it gets too messy.
Never date an ex's relative, it gets stickier.
Always make sure the person is close to your age.

You all get the idea, the reason I was so picky, is because in the places I go, everyone has dated someone else I know, or is related to someone or... well you get the idea.

Though if you want me to really annoy you... I have what your looking for. blaugh heart xd

Just lower your standards and you might actually be surprised by what you find. Also, how the hellp do you define punk? its such a varied and consistantly changing style its impossible.  

[Archangel Izual]

Rellik San

Maybe you should lower your standards, there are only a few sure fire rules when looking for a girl. And those are just common sense things like...


Never date a friends ex, it gets too messy.
Never date an ex's relative, it gets stickier.
Always make sure the person is close to your age.

You all get the idea, the reason I was so picky, is because in the places I go, everyone has dated someone else I know, or is related to someone or... well you get the idea.

Though if you want me to really annoy you... I have what your looking for. blaugh heart xd

Just lower your standards and you might actually be surprised by what you find. Also, how the hellp do you define punk? its such a varied and consistantly changing style its impossible.

the bolded statement was a broken rule in the case of my friend and my ex....

i mean... TWO ******** WEEKS LATER???
COME THE ******** ON!!! I ******** hate that stupid son of a b***h now.  

[Rellik San]

Archangel Izual

Rellik San

Maybe you should lower your standards, there are only a few sure fire rules when looking for a girl. And those are just common sense things like...


Never date a friends ex, it gets too messy.
Never date an ex's relative, it gets stickier.
Always make sure the person is close to your age.

You all get the idea, the reason I was so picky, is because in the places I go, everyone has dated someone else I know, or is related to someone or... well you get the idea.

Though if you want me to really annoy you... I have what your looking for. blaugh heart xd

Just lower your standards and you might actually be surprised by what you find. Also, how the hellp do you define punk? its such a varied and consistantly changing style its impossible.

the bolded statement was a broken rule in the case of my friend and my ex....

i mean... TWO ******** WEEKS LATER???
COME THE ******** ON!!! I ******** hate that stupid son of a b***h now.

Point in case of the dating rules.

Thats happened so many times to people I know.

Another one to remember
an ex is an ex for a reason, keep it that way.  

[Archangel Izual]

Rellik San

Archangel Izual

Rellik San

Maybe you should lower your standards, there are only a few sure fire rules when looking for a girl. And those are just common sense things like...


Never date a friends ex, it gets too messy.
Never date an ex's relative, it gets stickier.
Always make sure the person is close to your age.

You all get the idea, the reason I was so picky, is because in the places I go, everyone has dated someone else I know, or is related to someone or... well you get the idea.

Though if you want me to really annoy you... I have what your looking for. blaugh heart xd

Just lower your standards and you might actually be surprised by what you find. Also, how the hellp do you define punk? its such a varied and consistantly changing style its impossible.

the bolded statement was a broken rule in the case of my friend and my ex....

i mean... TWO ******** WEEKS LATER???
COME THE ******** ON!!! I ******** hate that stupid son of a b***h now.

Point in case of the dating rules.

Thats happened so many times to people I know.

Another one to remember
an ex is an ex for a reason, keep it that way.

another one for you.
Mistakes made can be corrected. So an ex doesn't always have to be.