the dead issiue

[Blow.Me.Bubbles]

I'm not sure what to do , go see my dads grave site or never go... i'm scared of grave yards (stupid i know) longer story than i'd like to share last august my dad went poof and i'm feeling guilty for not having a service for him ,and not going to visit. I feel like horrible daughter and even worse cuz it was all my choice stare  

[fullmeatgirl]

If you don't feel comfortable going then don't go.You still love your father and that's all that counts.  

[Bottine]

If you wanna pray for him or whatever, you don't necessarily have to do it standing on top of his coffin. =o

That you still give a thought about him is already nice. ^_^
 

[Blow.Me.Bubbles]

0.o i'm really hoping that one day , it won't be such a tabu thing in my family to talk about him, and i will preay from him not that i think that will help, the way he died suggested hes going to hell, my mum was a dear and wrote it in her symathy card (nice parents huh?)