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 Posted: Sat Nov 04, 2006 9:00 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2006 8:46 am
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Light of Nuitari Put me to sleep, evil angel... How do you convince someone that they DON'T love you...?
sweatdrop ...Open your wings, evil angel
That is one of the those things that I haven't figured out either. I guess you just tell them you don't like them that way and to move on. I used to REALLY like this one guy steve, I pretty much was in love with him, I thought about him all throughout the day and I gave him a warm hug every time I saw him. However, he didn't like me the way I liked him, he thought I was just playing, but in reality every time he accepted my affection I fell deeper in love with him. Ignoring his little flaws because I knew I had some myself. So what if he was an otaku? I'd say, or so what if he did some terrible things in his past, he regrets them so why should it bother me? So what if he's a little gross sometimes, most boys are, so I better get used to it. Until finally he told me that he doesn't love me, and never will love me, that brought my world crushing down. I... I didn't know what to do after that, but... day by day I grew less and less in love with him. Now instead of "Stevie-chan!!!" I call him, "Icky Stevie ><" |
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Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2006 5:10 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2006 6:57 pm
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Light of Nuitari Put me to sleep, evil angel... It isn't that I don't like him that way. I do like him.
It's just, after seeing each other in person twice, and talking on the phone five or six times, he broke out the L-word. That's not a little fast. It's insane.
That was over a week ago, and we've talked about it since then. I've told him he doesn't know me well enough, that you can't fall in love that quickly. He's claiming something akin to love at first sight...
I'd love to give him a chance, but every instinct I have is telling me to run...
Add the distance factor (disccused in my "I met someone..." thread), and I think that I'm iffy enough to back out of it... ...Open your wings, evil angel When one burns out, another takes its place;
 I am gray, I am gray
Shoot it
I am color, I am color
Shooting
This is gray, this is gray
Shot it
I am color, I am color
Shot
Well, I really do think you can fall in love with someone that quickly.
It's a grand and romantic notion that more people should be open to.
But! If your instincts are telling you 'no' then you should go with them. You shouldn't give him the faintest hint of 'I love you too' or anything close to. It's cruel to him. If you're gonna end whatever it is the two of you have going on it needs to end really soon. The longer you two are romantically acquainted the deeper he's going to get involved and it'll just make it all that much worse when you end it.
At times, they seem close enough to touch,
as they transport your dreams far away.
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DarquePinkPaper Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 7:27 am
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Put me to sleep, evil angel...
That's just my problem, though.
I have committment issues, 'cause I've been let down by too many people before. People let you down, so I don't want my happiness to depend on one person. I've told him all this. I told him that if I ever do fall for him that hard, it'll be a long time from now. But those issues are what's making me want to run...
sweatdrop
He's definitely the type of guy that I COULD fall for. And I don't wanna turn my back on that chance, but I'm freaked out by how fast and how deep he's getting into this thing. We're only talking, not even dating yet, and he's all ready in love? Why shouldn't that bother me?
I keep going back and forth. Like...yesterday, I thought I'd decided to break it off and not go any further, but I couldn't decide how to tell him. Then, he ended up not calling me last night, like he usually does (we've only not talked like two nights in the last week), and it bothered me that I didn't hear his voice yesterday. How can I NOT want to spend time with someone when it bothers me not to talk to them? So, then I took that as a meaning we should still try this thing.
Gah!
I'm such a damn girl.
Sorry for righting so much... I'm venting... My apologies.
...Open your wings, evil angel |
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 7:50 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 2:22 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 7:05 pm
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Light of Nuitari Put me to sleep, evil angel... That's just my problem, though.
I have committment issues, 'cause I've been let down by too many people before. People let you down, so I don't want my happiness to depend on one person. I've told him all this. I told him that if I ever do fall for him that hard, it'll be a long time from now. But those issues are what's making me want to run...
sweatdrop
He's definitely the type of guy that I COULD fall for. And I don't wanna turn my back on that chance, but I'm freaked out by how fast and how deep he's getting into this thing. We're only talking, not even dating yet, and he's all ready in love? Why shouldn't that bother me?
I keep going back and forth. Like...yesterday, I thought I'd decided to break it off and not go any further, but I couldn't decide how to tell him. Then, he ended up not calling me last night, like he usually does (we've only not talked like two nights in the last week), and it bothered me that I didn't hear his voice yesterday. How can I NOT want to spend time with someone when it bothers me not to talk to them? So, then I took that as a meaning we should still try this thing.
Gah!
I'm such a damn girl.
Sorry for righting so much... I'm venting... My apologies. ...Open your wings, evil angel When one burns out, another takes its place;
I am gray, I am gray
Shoot it
I am color, I am color
Shooting
This is gray, this is gray
Shot it
I am color, I am color
Shot
Nothing's wrong with being a girl, Nui. =)
Maybe it shouldn't bother you...All the great love stories have people falling in love, not over a course of time while dating but almost immediately or at the very least, really soon.
There must be some merit to that or else people wouldn't keep writing it and making movies about it. 3nodding
It's not like it's fantastical romantic bullpoop, it all has basis somewhere.
Personally, I think it's great he cares so much about you after only talking. It means that he's genuinely into who you are and not what you look like or what you can offer him physically.
And of course, if you're spending this much time wondering about it and you said so yourself that you should give this a try...you should. And I know you're concerned for yourself and your feelings but...love isn't love unless it hurts sometimes.
You'll have to try to focus on the good parts. The parts that make you happy...I know the bad parts can be pretty bad but it can be worth it.
...AM I RAMBLING?! =D
Taquito.
At times, they seem close enough to touch,
as they transport your dreams far away.
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DarquePinkPaper Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 11:57 pm
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DarquePinkPaper Light of Nuitari Put me to sleep, evil angel... That's just my problem, though.
I have committment issues, 'cause I've been let down by too many people before. People let you down, so I don't want my happiness to depend on one person. I've told him all this. I told him that if I ever do fall for him that hard, it'll be a long time from now. But those issues are what's making me want to run...
sweatdrop
He's definitely the type of guy that I COULD fall for. And I don't wanna turn my back on that chance, but I'm freaked out by how fast and how deep he's getting into this thing. We're only talking, not even dating yet, and he's all ready in love? Why shouldn't that bother me?
I keep going back and forth. Like...yesterday, I thought I'd decided to break it off and not go any further, but I couldn't decide how to tell him. Then, he ended up not calling me last night, like he usually does (we've only not talked like two nights in the last week), and it bothered me that I didn't hear his voice yesterday. How can I NOT want to spend time with someone when it bothers me not to talk to them? So, then I took that as a meaning we should still try this thing.
Gah!
I'm such a damn girl.
Sorry for righting so much... I'm venting... My apologies. ...Open your wings, evil angel When one burns out, another takes its place; I am gray, I am gray
Shoot it
I am color, I am color
Shooting
This is gray, this is gray
Shot it
I am color, I am color
Shot
Nothing's wrong with being a girl, Nui. =)
Maybe it shouldn't bother you...All the great love stories have people falling in love, not over a course of time while dating but almost immediately or at the very least, really soon.
There must be some merit to that or else people wouldn't keep writing it and making movies about it. 3nodding
It's not like it's fantastical romantic bullpoop, it all has basis somewhere.
Personally, I think it's great he cares so much about you after only talking. It means that he's genuinely into who you are and not what you look like or what you can offer him physically.
And of course, if you're spending this much time wondering about it and you said so yourself that you should give this a try...you should. And I know you're concerned for yourself and your feelings but...love isn't love unless it hurts sometimes.
You'll have to try to focus on the good parts. The parts that make you happy...I know the bad parts can be pretty bad but it can be worth it.
...AM I RAMBLING?! =D
Taquito.
At times, they seem close enough to touch,
as they transport your dreams far away. Put me to sleep, evil angel...
Ha. This is why I keep you around.
But it isn't like he's never seen me. We met in person twice before we started talking on the phone. Both times he'd come to see my friend, his cousin, and the second time he ended up spending almost half the trip with me instead. sweatdrop
Gah, I'm not looking for someone to fall in love with. I just want someone to spend time with. Take out a little loneliness. I'm as anti-love as they come. And I don't like being confused about stuff like this. I hate it.
gonk
...Open your wings, evil angel |
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 10:23 am
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Light of Nuitari DarquePinkPaper Light of Nuitari Put me to sleep, evil angel... That's just my problem, though.
I have committment issues, 'cause I've been let down by too many people before. People let you down, so I don't want my happiness to depend on one person. I've told him all this. I told him that if I ever do fall for him that hard, it'll be a long time from now. But those issues are what's making me want to run...
sweatdrop
He's definitely the type of guy that I COULD fall for. And I don't wanna turn my back on that chance, but I'm freaked out by how fast and how deep he's getting into this thing. We're only talking, not even dating yet, and he's all ready in love? Why shouldn't that bother me?
I keep going back and forth. Like...yesterday, I thought I'd decided to break it off and not go any further, but I couldn't decide how to tell him. Then, he ended up not calling me last night, like he usually does (we've only not talked like two nights in the last week), and it bothered me that I didn't hear his voice yesterday. How can I NOT want to spend time with someone when it bothers me not to talk to them? So, then I took that as a meaning we should still try this thing.
Gah!
I'm such a damn girl.
Sorry for righting so much... I'm venting... My apologies. ...Open your wings, evil angel When one burns out, another takes its place; I am gray, I am gray
Shoot it
I am color, I am color
Shooting
This is gray, this is gray
Shot it
I am color, I am color
Shot
Nothing's wrong with being a girl, Nui. =)
Maybe it shouldn't bother you...All the great love stories have people falling in love, not over a course of time while dating but almost immediately or at the very least, really soon.
There must be some merit to that or else people wouldn't keep writing it and making movies about it. 3nodding
It's not like it's fantastical romantic bullpoop, it all has basis somewhere.
Personally, I think it's great he cares so much about you after only talking. It means that he's genuinely into who you are and not what you look like or what you can offer him physically.
And of course, if you're spending this much time wondering about it and you said so yourself that you should give this a try...you should. And I know you're concerned for yourself and your feelings but...love isn't love unless it hurts sometimes.
You'll have to try to focus on the good parts. The parts that make you happy...I know the bad parts can be pretty bad but it can be worth it.
...AM I RAMBLING?! =D
Taquito.
At times, they seem close enough to touch,
as they transport your dreams far away. Put me to sleep, evil angel... Ha. This is why I keep you around.
But it isn't like he's never seen me. We met in person twice before we started talking on the phone. Both times he'd come to see my friend, his cousin, and the second time he ended up spending almost half the trip with me instead. sweatdrop
Gah, I'm not looking for someone to fall in love with. I just want someone to spend time with. Take out a little loneliness. I'm as anti-love as they come. And I don't like being confused about stuff like this. I hate it.
gonk ...Open your wings, evil angel When one burns out, another takes its place;
I am gray, I am gray
Shoot it
I am color, I am color
Shooting
This is gray, this is gray
Shot it
I am color, I am color
Shot
Well yeah, he's seen ya but he fell in love with you after talking a bunch, not being around you...in the flesh. >.<
He seems nice enough that you might be able to tell him you just want someone to spend time with. He might be willing to settle for that...for now anyways. ninja
He'll just hold out for you to develop the uh,...feelings. Or admit to them...or accept them...somethin' like that.
At times, they seem close enough to touch,
as they transport your dreams far away.
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DarquePinkPaper Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Nov 07, 2006 7:48 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 1:01 am
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Light of Nuitari Put me to sleep, evil angel... You have THE greatest way with words ever, Darque.
Love it.
But I dunno, I'm stressed about so much in my life right now, and Simon's just adding to it, since I can't seem to make up my mind. I hate being indecisive...
Do me a favor and slap me? ...Open your wings, evil angel When one burns out, another takes its place;
I am gray, I am gray
Shoot it
I am color, I am color
Shooting
This is gray, this is gray
Shot it
I am color, I am color
Shot
Oooh...permission.
*SLAPPITYSLAPPYMCSLAPSLAP*
Just be honest with him and tell him what you're going through. You seem interested and you should tell him how you feel about him, but you also need to convey your concerns to him. Maybe not all of them or maybe not in full detail, but at least somewhat so he can be more understanding.
Unless he's a mindreader. Then that fool already knows and he's just waiting for you to say it. Aww.
I have words. =D
And potatoes.
No, wait...scratch that...just words. Wait...no, I might have potatoes. I'm not gonna look though...alright...just so I can rest easy...*goes off to the side*
I have words and a piece of paper that says 'potatoes' on it. ninja
At times, they seem close enough to touch,
as they transport your dreams far away.
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DarquePinkPaper Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 8:13 am
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 5:31 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 2:48 pm
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