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Posted: Sat Nov 11, 2006 8:32 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 1:02 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 11:26 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 4:25 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:33 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:34 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 8:43 pm
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Um.. ouch. D:
I'm not sure how to start this post, but that's not right. I'm not going to tell you to stop, because you can't stop just because you want to or someone tells you it's bad. I think it's less an addiction and more a state of mind. You need to have your own outside perspective of the situation, to see it for what it really is.
I don't know. I mean, I wasted a year of my life with a pair of scissors in my hands and one day I was just like, "Wait.. what the ********?" and I haven't since.
People get snitchy about it, and I'm in no way trying to be insensitive here, but it really is stupid and just a waste. Just because it makes you fell better doesn't mean it actually achieves something.
Everyone I've talked to who has stopped doesn't regret it in the slightest, and has never felt the need to once they realised what a d**k they were being. Again, no insensitivity intended, it's just honesty.
In fact if there is anything I regret doing more than anything else in my life it would have to be that. Really, it would. As materialistic as it sounds, no longer can I wear short sleeves. And I'm always thinking about what if my Grandparents see them? Or my children (some day). It's a horrible thing to have to explain to someone.
It's just one of those things where you don't realise how much of a mistake it was until you look back on it without your rose painted glasses.
And the hard truth is, no matter what people say about talking it through, or confiding in people, or seeking therapy, no one else can do s**t for you. All the hard stuff is left up to you, everyone in between is just slowing you down. If you want to do something about it, just stop ******** around and do it. If you don't then nothing anyone can say to you in this thread is going to help you.
So there you have it, something you can hopefully appreciate one day.
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 12:42 am
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yeah I admit I was doing this before,those times when I thought nobody really understood.Now,I still think nobody understood even if I tried to tell them something,sharing with friends,something like that.All they gave me back is all advise.Well,I'm not really proud of myself but I just dont really take advises.I go on my own thoughts and belief.For the cuts,some cut themselves without any reason at all,just to make themselves 'emo'.really its honestly true at sometimes.For now,I don't cut if my problems are too easy handle (unlike some who cuts just because they scold by their teachers in school,ucck).It means I still cut but I never cut without any BIG BIG BIG problems to cut myself about.sorry guys,but thats just me.
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 3:13 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 13, 2006 9:45 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 5:28 am
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Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 4:56 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2006 7:16 pm
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I can't believe our country is so self-absorbed.
This is very cliche', but there are people around the world without homes, without any family, without enough food to eat who don't cut themselves.
Teenagers who cut their wrists should thank God/thier entity/whatever it is they believe in that they have food on the table and a roof over thier heads. You have clothes on your body and get to have an education.
So life sucks. Of course it does. You're anywhere from 14-17 years old, I'd assume. It's called HORMONES. EVERYONE goes through it.
That horrible depression where all you can think about is how much you hate yourself? Yup, everyone gets that. The feeling that you're all alone and no one understands you? Yup, that too.
So please, stop the cutting. It's not a release. It's not solving your problems. IT's a CRY FOR ATTENTION. Check it out. The person who started this thread put up a picture of their slit wrist. Why? So someone would see it. Someone would respond. Someone would PAY ATTENTION to the fact that they're cutting.
I know that it feels self-righteous and you think you deserve it. It isn't and you don't. Trust me, I'm almost 22 years old, I've been through the whole "Woe is I and all my dark depression" phase. Believe me, it goes away.
Find another outlet. Draw a picture, write some poetry, listen to your Dashboard or Taking Back Sunday or 30 Seconds to Mars. Update your Myspace with all that stuff. Find someone to talk to, to AIM, whatever it is that makes you feel better.
But don't sit there in your self pity. Don't cut yourself. 'Cause believe me, IT WILL PASS. It might take a while, but you'll hit the point where you're free of all that.
And damn does it feel good.
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