Should I?? How and When??

[Striped Panties]

should i tell my mum that i'm bisexual??
if so, how and when should i tell her??
i really want to, but dont know whether it would be a good idea or not??
help much appreciated biggrin  

[steph kasen]

If you really, truely feel you need to tell your mom, go for it. Well, how and when is totally up to you. It's when you feel ready and have the confindence to do so. Doesn't matter if it's a good idea or not, it's what you believe in is right. When you feel comfortable and brave enough, go up to her and say I need to tell you something, that I want you to understand and except. And then go on from there. If she doesn't take it well at first, give her time to relax and calm down. I wish you luck and hope I helped you. If you need any other help, please ask.
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Stephanie Kasen

 

[Hikaru Akumu]

I agree with Steph Kasen. It's quite right.

I say if You really, Really, want to let her know, then do it before you chicken out. It's the best way. How you do it? You could do it the blunt way by just saying it out loud, or you can ask to talk to her in your room or in the kitchen or something.  

[XXX Zombie Porn]

You don't need to tell her but if you want to then be blunt.  

[-Isel-]

Oh, for me, it was very easy.

"Where'd you get that rose?"
"Boyfriend."
"Oh. Okay."

Two years ago.  

[Ionic_Warrior]

Just ask her for dating advice that you might need. Worked for me.  

[Striped Panties]

thanks, i might think about it . . . she's just so scary to approach . . . i might wait untill she asks if i'm a lesbian again . . . she often does as a joke .. .
lol  

[[Posh_Hypno]]

If your mom is super religous no...my mom says if I say Im bi she'll send me to a religous place to get rid a gayness but Im not bi so i have nothing to worry about 3nodding what about your mom?  

[Striped Panties]

Well, my mum's extreemly open to it, when i was 10 she asked if i wanted to go on a gay rights march with her lol
and she says to me jokingly that she wouldn't care if i was a lesbian and that it would give her an excuse to go to her favourite gay pub lol
it's just that i dont quite know how to suddenly come out to her . . . maybe i'll wait untill i'm in a female relationship before i say anything?  

[Rellik San]

Or turn around and simply say to your mum, your bisexual. What is she gonna do, she's open to it, not like its a bad thing. So just go for it.  

[Striped Panties]

i want to, the only thing that's holding me back is that what if i change my mind and decide i'm straight in a few years time? it would be embarrassing to change my mind . . . i dont think it would happen, but it might, and also, if she knew, she might not let me have any girls sleep over again . .. and it's fun 3nodding
lol  

[Rellik San]

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i want to, the only thing that's holding me back is that what if i change my mind and decide i'm straight in a few years time? it would be embarrassing to change my mind . . . i dont think it would happen, but it might, and also, if she knew, she might not let me have any girls sleep over again . .. and it's fun 3nodding
lol

Sounds to me like your unsure yourself even if you are Bi or not, in which case just don't tell her.  

[Striped Panties]

I don't know, the thing is, is that i think i just prefer girls slightly more to guys, but i've asked a friend and she said that one of her friends came out to her mm and she will ask what she said, if not i ay just wait untill i have a girlfriend then say something . . .
thanks for you help anyway smile  

[shizu_makai]

Well, if you're bi curious then the right thing to do is go searching before you make that big step.

Depending on her morals i can't tell you much.. But.

With me it was.. it wasn't the best of discussion.. Nor the most quiet..

3 hours.. God.  

[Striped Panties]

well . . . i just broke up with my boyfriend this morning because i think i've fallen for my best friend laura, she's sleeping round tomorrow, we usually 'do things' when she sleeps round mine, she likes to blindfold me and bite my neck or something, she also likes to tie up my hands . . .
I really want to ask her out, but when i asked if she was bi she said she wasnt but liked to mess around with other girls .. . i really want to ask her out.
i'm going to see how it goes and i might as her out, if she i do and she says yes, then i'll tell my mum that i have a girlriend.
i'll update you after tmorrow night