i love a girl, but shes moving...

[P01S0N3D_CUPC4KE]

I love a girl... ive loved her since school started, but shes moving and we havent even kissed yet...

Ive really wanted to go out with her, but i never had the balls to ask her...

What do i do to tell her ...  

[ffsghyanbh]

ask her out.  

[[Ashes][is][Ashes]]

Tell her exactly that. Well, except for the kiss part. You might want to just do that.  

[solonley]

i went through the exact same problem. exept i was moving away.
when is she moving. if its a mattr of months then ask her out.
but if not then just confess and live with life
unless you think you have the apttitude for a long distace relationship
then all the power to ya
and about the kissing thing
if you dont get up the guts to do it before she leaves
you should at least do it on the last day you see each other
(how romantic 4laugh )  

[Ionic_Warrior]

solonly is right. Just go for while you still can. At least she would know.

 

[mexoyou]

solonley

i went through the exact same problem. exept i was moving away.
when is she moving. if its a mattr of months then ask her out.
but if not then just confess and live with life
unless you think you have the apttitude for a long distace relationship
then all the power to ya
and about the kissing thing
if you dont get up the guts to do it before she leaves
you should at least do it on the last day you see each other
(how romantic 4laugh )

the same thing happened to me ... :[ i still talk to the guy but i know it wouldn't work out ... i was going to ask him out the last day i saw him but my mom picked me up from school early and i didn't really get to say good bye :[ i found out later that he was going to ask me out too!! :[ but deffinatly keep in touch no matter what b/c if everything works out you can become really really good friends :]  

[P01S0N3D_CUPC4KE]

KK thx guys... im really glad u helped out.. i didnbt know where else to turn... so i was like...Gaia!... lol but thx anyways i think im gonna try out the last day thing lol  

[Sakura Anata]

hey i got really good advice accully ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost two years now we met cuz he was in college and he was finishing and we had been liking eachother forever so we said why not go out we did and even tho i live in philly and now he lives in upstate NY its about a 4 hour drive away we still talk online and on the phone and see eachother a few times a month and spend holidays together a few months ago he asked me to marry him i said yeah and we decided when i finish school and become 21 ( since im 19 about to be 20) that we will get married and then move to jersey together since its right in the middle from our familys lol i hope you get what im saying though its like the kill hannah song called dont die wondering so dont regret never doing it cuz it mite just be a great relationship ya know smile

Good Luck !  

[Uebermenschen]

This is happening to me right now. Personally, if you REALLY love her, I would suggest NOT going out with her. It's not worth it. Keep in touch when she moves, but don't get too close in such little time, keep in touch and grow a bond. I tried going out with...her in the little time we had left...it's not worth it. It was great, but we did some stupid stuff. We ran away together. It wasn't good. We didn't eat for almost 3 days (as if I'd much in that time anyway, but) and we broke into a house and stayed there. We were scared the whole time, and we ended up getting arrested (cuffs hurt a bit!) Now our praents hate the our other halves (or close to it) and she broke up with me. I think that was best, it hurt knowing we would be separated, it's better to just keep in touch.

Do what you like, but take heed what I say.  

[The Kings Royal Baker]

Tell her the way you feel. It's a better thing you never dated her, because it'd make it that much harder when she moved. I don't think it's as much of a love thing as it is an infatuation, that's how it is at a young age. That's not my thing to say, but it's my view on it. I'm in the same situation, only I have a better grasp on it. My neighbor is moving this summer, and I liked her for over a year. I never made anything of it and I'm glad, because if I ever did date her it'd suck when she really did move. My advice is just be open with her and tell her about how much you like her and that you'll miss her a lot, also that you valued her friendship. That is if you did have a friendship.  

[Mortal Apparition]

Just speak the truth.

Always works. domokun  

[jrat123456]

Uebermenschen

This is happening to me right now. Personally, if you REALLY love her, I would suggest NOT going out with her. It's not worth it. Keep in touch when she moves, but don't get too close in such little time, keep in touch and grow a bond. I tried going out with...her in the little time we had left...it's not worth it. It was great, but we did some stupid stuff. We ran away together. It wasn't good. We didn't eat for almost 3 days (as if I'd much in that time anyway, but) and we broke into a house and stayed there. We were scared the whole time, and we ended up getting arrested (cuffs hurt a bit!) Now our praents hate the our other halves (or close to it) and she broke up with me. I think that was best, it hurt knowing we would be separated, it's better to just keep in touch.

Do what you like, but take heed what I say.

lol.. that mus of been interesting.. why did u run away tho? stay there.. just be the unseen  

[[Ashes][is][Ashes]]

PAY ATTENTION TO THE DATES, AND HOW FAR DOWN THE PAGE THE POSTS ARE.
YOU PEOPLE ARE RESURRECTING OLD THREADS THAT NEED NOT BE RESURRECTED. THEY HAVE BEEN SOLVED, OR LEFT ALONE, AND DO NOT NEED TO BE BROUGHT BACK UP.
KNOCK. IT. OFF.  

[Eri Luvs You]

[Ashes][is][Ashes]

PAY ATTENTION TO THE DATES, AND HOW FAR DOWN THE PAGE THE POSTS ARE.
YOU PEOPLE ARE RESURRECTING OLD THREADS THAT NEED NOT BE RESURRECTED. THEY HAVE BEEN SOLVED, OR LEFT ALONE, AND DO NOT NEED TO BE BROUGHT BACK UP.
KNOCK. IT. OFF.

I laughed when I realized how far back this was...then decided not to say anything.
I laughed even harder when you yelled at the kids...and i decided to say something.
haha.  

[[Ashes][is][Ashes]]

Yeah, well, I was getting ticked.
A few new members think it's absolutely wonderful to put their piece in everywhere in this forum, and quite honestly, it was pissing me off.