Am I too strict?
I admit the last few times justin went places, we fought, and ive been so emotional, or he didnt tell me and i was expecting him to call...etc. Anywho, tonight he called me to tell me that he's going to fat joes. I asked when he was gonna be home, cause i might be on the comp or wotnot and he said not too late (which usually means early in the morning around 1 or 2) so I said ok. Then he apologized! Like i'm always too strict and never like him going out and having a life of his own. Especially now that our lives are gonna change dramatically, I WANT him to go out and have fun....But I guess Ive been too strict for him to do that care-free... sweatdrop
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It's good though that you understand that you both need to pursue your own friends and hobbies even after, well, you guys "get you know what".
I read an article about tips on how to avoid an early end to the relationship and one of the big ones is to respect each other's right to have friends or hobbies without wanting them to be chained to you 24/7.