This has been probably one of the fastest but longest summers at the same time that I've had in a long, long time. I don't even remember half of the things that have happened over the summer. There's a lot of highlights that are in my mind, I guess those would be the easiest things to update people about, on here.
Relationships:
First of all, a few months before summer started I began dating this guy that I use to work with named Isaias. He was my first 'serious' relationship that I've ever had..so there was a pretty strong tie to him on my part. I won't go into serious detail, but he was the one to take my virginity, something that I hadn't planned on giving away for quite some time to come. I don't regret it, though, it is pointless to regret things that you can't change. So, yeah, we started dating about a month before he left. Here is a quick 'rundown' on Isaias. He went down to California a few years ago [if I remember correctly], and when he was there he got involved with a gang. So..going back to the present..when June rolled around he ended up going back down to California to..'deal' with some gang related things. However, while he was down there he ended up getting in trouble and because of that he went on parole. Well..since he went on parole he ended up not being able to leave the state of California. Because of this we ended up breaking up a couple of months ago since he didn't know if and when he would be able to come back home. Needless to say, I was crushed, but with the help of friends and being constantly busy with work it was relatively easy to get over.
However..in the process of getting over him I made an mistake on my part. I let myself sleep with this guy I work with named Shane, twice. He's not the most savory of people..and in all truth he was nothing but the rebound. The longing for something, anything, physical again. Since this happened, though, he has the mindset that he can get away with pretty much anything when we're working together..and his 'flirting' is starting to become borderline sexual harassment. Especially since it has been made clear plenty of a time.
As of about a month ago we got this guy that use to work at my work back. He needed a job and money and, well, Kristin adores him so he was pretty much a shoe-in for another job at JIB. I got to work with him on his first day back. His name is James. Well, that entire night it was as if we were old friends. I don't know what it is about him but it was extremely easy for me to open up to him. From what I understand from what he's told me..it attracted him to me rather greatly. We ended up hanging out at my apartment about a week after he started working there, if it was even that, and we spent the night just talking and watching movies. It was nice. Around midnight my roommate Andrea came home from work, so it made it a little less awkward..even though we had been doing just fine for the most part. The three of us ended up staying awake until about, oh, five in the morning or so before she finally ended up going to bed. However, before then the two of them had decided that they needed to start tickling me and whatnot. After Andrea went to bed, though, James decided to start up the tickling again..one thing led to another..and the next thing I know we're making out. Since then it has kind of just..advanced from there. we're not together but we are lovers. It's nice. He's amazing. I love the way that I feel around him. And we have a lot of fun together. Like on Sunday. :] Oh my God, that was amazing. The entire thing. I don't know what it was..but it was all just..amazing. We were having a lot of fun. -Shakes fist- That man and deciding to hit me with pillows! Ohhh. It was amazingly fun. I had such a great time.
Work:
Eh. It's been alright. In a lot of ways it has been getting better since Hannah quit. Almost all of the drama has left. Kristin has been getting a lot better, she's a lot looser. We've gained some good people..and lost a few good people, too. D: I'll miss you, Elida. Mucho amounts.
Apartment life:
It has been pretty good since we let Cory go. Sure, I miss him, but the money problems and stress has been cut almost in half since we kicked him out. Andrea and I have been having a good time since we lost him. We're a lot less stressed, now, too. Sure, we're a little tight on money..but at the same time we've been having a lot easier of a time. Plus, there's finally food in the fridge and cupboards! It's pretty much amazing. And thrilling. It's nice to finally be able to be hungry and know that if I really am as hungry as I think I can just look in the kitchen.
Friends:
Rachel and I are no longer friends. At all. Misty and I have gotten really close over the last month or so. Oh, right, Misty is a woman that I met through Cory. She's a thirty-five year old, amazing, single mother of three. Charlie, Rex, and Brandon. Those three are amazing, too. Poor Rex, though, he got his mothers a**. -laughs- The boy is doomed. Charlie..oh my little Charlie, she's going to be such a heart breaker. Anyways. Misty has become the older sister that I never had. Really. I can talk to her about pretty much anything. She listens. She can relate. She is thirty-five going on nineteen. I love her. I'd do anything for her and anything for her children.
General:
I finally got my ID! After like..four attempts. I went with Misty in June and we FINALLY managed to get the people at the DOL to give it to me. I was so excited, I almost jumped over that counter and hugged the lady that agreed. Hmn. I got a doggie! She's a fattie but I love her. She's a black Labrador retriever. She's my baby. Her name is Roxy. Right now she's asleep on the broken recliner that we have..she's claimed it as her own. My poor baby, Rex and Brandon must have worn her out. They watch her when Andrea and I work. :] Keeps her out of the apartment and let's her have some time to be outside and whatnot, plus, she loves her babies.
I finally got my lip pierced. :] Got it done in June. On the 27th, actually. That was painful but fun. Went with Misty and got it done, I paid for both of ours, actually. She got her Marilyn done. We had fun doing that, it was a good day for the two of us to bond. Since then we've been amazingly tight.
There's not really much that I can think of right now. When I figure more out I'll let y'all know.
Sislana · Wed Sep 03, 2008 @ 01:05pm · 0 Comments |