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My BIGGEST Pet Peeve is when people ask for either my advice or advice in general, and when I give it to them they don't take it, or they get offended because it wasn't what they wanted to hear! Like don't ask and I won't tell!

Why do people ask for advice, opinions, or ask for help on certain situations when they have their mind already set? I for the life of me don't understand that. So yea that's one of my BIGGEST Pet Peeves!!!

I have had to face my BIGGEST Pet Peeve a few times already on Gaia, grrr I want to SCREAM! I won't get into all of that but, long story short these people wanted advice in general so I am like cool why don't I swoop in and help them because I am kind like that, but Nuuuu~ they either have their mind already set aka they want me to just agree with them and tell them what they want to hear, or they get mad at me and offended because again their mind is already set.

I swear sometimes I wonder about society, aka this World we are living in...

I mean if someone already has their mind set, wouldn't it be easier and smarter just to do what they want to do instead of wasting my time and their time? For instance again I tried to help someone and they snap at me and tell me they're just gonna do them, okay that's great! go and do you, but don't ask for any advice if you don't really want to hear the advice given. I mean I am never ever rude with my advice, I can be blunt sure, but I am NEVER rude. My soul intentions are to help people, never to hurt them, or cause them any harm, but if someone wants my advice I have to give them my honest opinion on things, I am just not the type of person who is going to tell someone what they want to hear.

So yea if you need advice just don't ask me unless you want my honest opinion. Heh...

It would be like me asking hey everyone! what should I eat today? should I eat this burger, or this hotdog? and someone says hmm... I think you should eat the hotdog, and I jump in and say you know I think I will just take the burger it looks really juicey yada yada... well why even ask if my mind is already set and I am not willing to listen to why I should eat one or the other.

Or if I said should I get this new Action Adventure Video Game, or this Horror based Video Game? and someone says yo def get the Horror Game! and then I get offended and snap and say Nuuu~ I hate HORRRORRRRR! well why even ask if I hate Horror right?

See it ALL makes NO SENSE whatsoever!