This is advice to a friend, and im sure more than one person is suffering from this one mistake.
He said, "I'm in love with this girl, and she loves me back. she's sweet, caring, loving, shes perfect. But she's never around. So, me being the unbeleivable scum I am, have been sneaking around with other girls behind her back. I am horrible. And now I dont know what to do to fix it."
Well, if you were really in love then you wouldnt have done this in the first place. But, being a boy or man that you are, you have urges and needs. If shes not there to fullfill those needs its partly her fault. But not all. And if and when she finds out, of course she will be mad, but if she really loves you back then she will learn to forgive. Girls and women alike are the ones who can forgive, but can never forget. If she forgives you, and gives you another chance, then that means she loves you but she does not trust you and you have to earn her trust back. If you love her but she doesnt give you another chance, show her wat she is missing. Show her that you are not wat is as expected. but right now, to fix it, is not to spoil her, is not to beat her to the punch of breaking up. Its to show her you truley are sorry are a truly in love with her. Now i cannot tell you how to do this, for it would not come from your heart. I suggest a face to face conversation telling her wat you did wrong. Telling her that you would do anything to keep her, and make her kno that there is only one girl in the whoole world for you. And that is her.
I hope this helps, good luck.
· Sun Aug 02, 2009 @ 09:47am · 0 Comments