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Wow it's been a long time. Well here's a quick update.

I got into a short arguement with Olivia last Sunday, not yesterday. I didn't really care that she didn't want to talk to me. But well she started to delete my e-mails, and I wanted to find out why. Of course she played it off like once again I was the crazy one, and she didn't do a thing. She is very good at covering her a**. But well I am way too used to her lies, for that day she had me wrapped around her finger. But I got knocked to my senses, when my very good close friend Amber made me realize what Olivia was doing to me again. So pretty much I've decided that my life has enough problems, and I'd rather not add the problem of Olivia to it.

My Myspace is being extremely evil to me right now. It won't let me add anybody to my friends list, I am thinking about just creating a new account. This isn't the first time something stupid happened to my Myspace. So yeah thought I would clear that up for all you people that claim I am ignoring your friends request, or sending me messages to add you. Honestly if you just simply click the "sent" button you'll see I read your first message, why must you send me message after message about it. I heard you the first time. So yeah please stop

I've got major girl problems though. Well I have three girls that are in "love" with me. I know it's the usual thing. Well lets see we have Stephanie, she is coming to my school next year. So well this summer in Driver's Ed we will be hanging out, I used empath on her, and well I can sense that she has some feelings for me, but the fact that she's only talked to me, and never hung out with me is stopping her from taking them seriously. And well at the moment she isn't really talking much to me, still trying to figure that out. I was honest with her about me liking her and crushing on her, maybe that turned her completely away, not sure.

Ok now Klarissa, well I've liked her since Christmas break when I had first met her, but well back then she had a boyfriend, so well we couldn't be anything more than friends. But she broke up with him awhile back, and well she texted me telling me she wants me, and well she's a really great girl. But her major flaw that I can't stand is she is too demanding and controlling. I mean I don't mind it from time to time, being cute about it and all. But that's all she ever does is be controlling. I can't be with a girl like that. So well maybe she isn't much of a problem, but she's still around, I can't break her heart. She's still a good friend, I am just hoping that she finds a guy soon

Now there is Rochelle, well she isn't a problem at all anymore. Actually she's been the best thing to happen to me in a long time. I've known her since late September. Well she had a boyfriend/fíance back then. Well I was there for her for part of her struggle, but well back then I was still getting over my major heart break that Olivia had caused me. So I didn't really take that much notice of Rochelle, well a couple of weeks ago, early in the first week of May, she messaged me, and she had started to do some major commenting on my pictures, saying things like "You are so amazingly hot" "I just died and went to Heaven and met you there", then comments saying how much she loves me, that she truly means it. I used my empath on her, I felt her feelings, I took it a step furhter and explored her thoughts alittle as much as I could. She was just using me to say things back, because she was having trouble with her boyfriend/fíance, and she wanted to make him get worried that another guy is going after her, and he needs to take more notice of her. Well I played along, I didn't mind, it would have been nice if she would have let me in on it, but then again then I would risk of the chance of making it obvious that I am just playing a game.

Well she had broken up with her boyfriend/fíance, and well went boyfriend searching again, and well I knew that all her feelings for me were just made up in her head, though she did a great job of fooling herself that she was in love with me. Well she had one guy that she got to be her new boyfriend, but she did message me about breaking up with her boyfriend and all that, and well tell me how he once again cheated on her, how hurt she was, her not knowing what to do. And well how this time around he cheated on her with three girls. One of which was her own best friend. I was there to support her. Then I started to comment her pictures, read her poetry. I started to feel something for her, I started to have feelings for her. I think I've told you all this before, but after Olivia my ability to feel anything was taken away, she had really broken me that badly. But for whatever reason Rochelle got me to feel something. I thought I had lost it. So because of that I wanted to know if she would be the one girl to save me from the darkness I crawled back into. Well I started to do some major flirting with her, we had talked all night long. And well her so called new "boyfriend" came around, must have read my comments to her, and well in a way I was testing her, because I told her how he wanted to be added to my friend's list. She told me to forget about him, she never did tell me anything about him. So basically I took my one and only chance to explore something.

So time passed but she refused to get back into a relationship with anybody, I told her to take her time and sort things out. And that I would be by her side to support her with whatever she chose to do. Well my main problem became that my feelings for her grew even more, and bravely used my empath to find out if all her "I love you" and everything else was true. To my surprise she was actually feeling something for me, the feeling she had for me were pretty strong, really knocked me off my feet I had to stop using my empath.

Well my big test from God came quickly. She had a week of total chaos, she found her long lost father, found out he's in prision, told me a brief sad story of how he left her and her mother and sister when they were so young. Her mother having nothing, being disowned by her own parents. So well it was pretty emotional and rocky, she kept flipping out on me when I tried to comfort her. So well it was hard, because I wanted to be there to help her, but she just wouldn't let me come close enough to her. Well then by the end of the week she had calmed down, said she was sorry for acting like a "b***h" to me. Then that same day, she found out that her sister has cancer, so it started all over again. But well she had felt really bad because she had read everything I wrote to her, me being patient with her, dealing with all her attacks on me. Me being scared to even touch her or come close to her.

I was bold enough to ask her out, leaving it an open option, because I really started to fall for her, and the thought that she was single, and I would lose such an amazing girl, scared me to death, she was the only girl to be able to invoke feelings out of me. And well I knew that it was a sign from God that I've found someone that for once He wants me to be with. But she rejected me telling me that it's just not the right time for her, and she's sorry. I told her that I'll be patient, and leave it once again up to her, by then I started to feel empty again, thinking that if she said no now, why would she change her mind about it later, but I stayed strong and kept my faith in God. So well after her troubles with her sister, and me being around to help her, and keep her company.

Well by the end of the night, she sent me an e-mail titled "I thought about it and....." basically she told me how much she loves me, how much she I mean to her, and how I've been with her through this really tough time and she realizes that even though it's probably not the best time to have a boyfriend again, or any relationship with any guy, she really wants me, she really needs me in her life. She asked me bluntly "Will you go out with me?" lol yes a girl for once asked me out, of course I was shocked, I was overjoyed. But you all know my bad luck with girls. So for once I was smart I sent my empath to evaluate her thoughts and feelings. I wish I could tell you exactly what I felt, what I saw. I mean she went from playing around with me about loving me, to actually be a lot more than in love with me, her feelings were extremely deep. I just don't know how to explain it, and she had so many thoughts of me running through her head, she thinks about me a lot. So I took that as a "green light" to go ahead and say yes, and I did. So basically she is my current girlfriend.

But I did notice something floating in her feelings and her thoughts. She has some pretty solid feelings for a boy, I asked her about it, was pretty shocked that she didn't question how I knew. And well she told me how she's had a crush on this one guy,for 2 years now. But he has a girlfriend. And I layed out the rules to her, that I will understand completely if she wants to be with him, if he does become single, but she needs to tell me, and to please just be open and honest, and not go off to cheat on me. She agreed and thanked me for understanding and giving her that option if she ever wants to take it. Well of course it did sort of bother me that she didn't try to say that he means nothing to her now or anything like that. But I got over it.

Well last night I was talking to her, and well basically he's gone, he no longer is in her thoughts or feelings. Now I could be stupid and question that, but then I would have to explain how I know that. And well I am not that great at explaining empath at all. And well it's kind of hard to tell someone that you can do that, without them getting offended and hostile. So I keep it on the down low. Only I and two other people know of what I can do. I tried to tell Olivia. But it ended way before I was about to her my greatest secret.

Now my problem lies with this. I have Stephanie on one side that I'll be going to school with pretty soon, and I have my girlfriend Rochelle on the other who I do truly love. I am pretty much giving up on Stephanie, since she is showing me no sign of interest anymore, and she already is crushing on her long time friend Andrew and hoping that he will move back to Florida soon enough, so that he can meet her mom, and well her mom has a pretty deep level of empath going on for her, so she'll see right through him, if he isn't the right guy for her. But I know that if I was to meet her, she would see everything about me, that I have empath as well, my true side of purity, she wouldn't be fooled by my fake wall of defense of evil to make people think I am bad, so that I don't end up hurting them. I am going to meet her one day while she drops off Stephanie to Driver's Ed, and well she is going to have a long time with Stephanie, asking her how she feels about me,and well explain to her that she thinks I would be perfect for her, and well I am sure she will leave out the fact that I have empath, since it's at such a low level at this point. I used to have a high level of it, before I gave it all up along with my heart and feelings to Olivia. I never wanted to know how she was feeling, what she thought of me, anything. I respected her that much, that I was willing to give it all up, and just let her prove to me her feelings, without me already knowing it.

So the time is going to come where I have to choose, do I stay with the one I truly love, or do I try my luck with a girl that will be in all my classes, with me in school, around me everywhere else. We do have a lot in common, and sad to say I still have my crush on her. So yeah that basically is my girl problem

As for school well its ending, I don't really have much to do, just take my finals, hope and pray to God that I pass them all. And just enjoy my summer.