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A Blog About A Question...


So anyways, its been a lil quiet on the blog scene lately for me... Hmm a lil "pre - ocupied" about a certain someone special... *winks*.. Thats a whole lota other blogs after next week or so .... Not just that, I dont keep things up in my head much these days, Ive kinda found people to talk about it instead of blogging about it .... Hmm, I guess blogging is good for people who like to think alot! As well as being just a tad bit busy... but it good, being busy keeps me out of trouble... Lmfao!

So the gals n I have been going out "alot" lately, but ... altho Im having a great time... Im pretty much well over it (yes, until I hear the ... Lets Go Out Song) lol...

We've been going to a local bar that does Karaoke, and one of the girls has met a guy a couple of weeks ago, anywho.. since Im all nice n stuff, invited him to my birthday ... Just for her! (trying to hook people up is a killer at times lol) ... Well... he came, with some friends and well all ended up out on Sat night, as you know... But, the "lovely couple to be" were already having problems... cause my girlfriend was here there and everywhere LOL... she was all over the place...

Well long story short... they ended up having a good time on sat night, and he invited her out the other night, just the two of them.... Now, she's not sure if he likes her, and I dont think he is sure if she likes him...

So we were talking about... When should you call someone after you've been out on a date, is there really a time limit anymore? I mean, years ago... A female waited for a guy to call her back, to make another date... but, if he didnt withinn the week.. it mean he wasnt interested... But, if a girl called the guy a couple of days later .. it meant, she was really keen and looking for a fullon relationship.... But Im talking, years now ...

Does that still matter these days? if a guy calls a girl to go out on a date, she goes ... does it matter if she calls him the next day (or one after) to say .. Hello, how are you? does that mean she is too eager, or that she is interested... or should she just wait for the guy to call her to make another date???

See me, Im like .. call him... call him to say hey, how ya doing... to me thats not to eager... Not every female wants to rush in to anything ... I think if you like someone and want to get to know them, it dont matter who does what first....