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The complications that are me
just some random thoughts and stuff i hate to keep in my head too long
Shall I give another complication?
OK sure. It's technically not mine, yet it affects me indirectly, so here it goes:

After much effort and struggle, my good buddy has finally got a girlfriend! yayness!
The thing is, the girl he is with now is the best friend of his ex sweatdrop
They both love her alot, his girl grew up with her, and even though they broke up, he still cares alot about her and they are still close. They are still very close.

The complication is, I know his ex still loves him, she had told me it on several occasions. They want to tell her about their relationship but don't know how to do it. Do you think the guy should tell her, or the best friend? Or should they not tell her @ all and let her find out by herself? I don't think the last one will work very well at all for their friendship and they want to keep it.

Comment and give me your views






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DeadEmu
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commentCommented on: Sun Oct 28, 2007 @ 08:40pm
Sorry, i have no idea


commentCommented on: Sun Oct 28, 2007 @ 09:14pm
Definately let the girl know. I know if a guy i dated was dating my best bud and i didnt know it but found out one day, id be pissed. If they are as good of friends as you say they are everything will be fine....naturally there will be some jealousy from the girl twards the best friend but come on...she loves the guy... xp



Del!r!ous.Del!r!um
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commentCommented on: Sun Oct 28, 2007 @ 10:15pm
I agree with Del. To be honest, I am kind of confused about the whole situation, but honesty is important no matter what.

Besides, best friends can usually work things out. In the big scheme of things, this issue is quite minor.


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