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SECREXY,RELATIONSHIP AND STUFF
I believe if you are in a relationship with someone you shouldn't have any secrets.
Ever heard that old saying "What a tangled web we weave when first we try to deceive"
Secrets can destroy relationships. Unless they are strong enough to weather that storm and move on.
When you see someone everyday, you can see when they are keeping something from you, its in their eyes, their manner, their voice, the way they communicate or don't with you.
I don't believe that you own anyone in this life. I have told my partner on numerous occassions if She wants to leave me she is free to do so. If she stays with me it is his choice. I will never force her to do so because you cannot force anyone to stay with you. I don't control her. I don't demand anything of her except fidelity and no secrets. She is her own person and will make his own decisions even if they are mistakes. I will forgive her but I will never forget.
I will never stand in the way of her passion. Her career comes first. I will never stop her going anywhere or doing anything to further his career. However as her partner I do believe I have a right to give her advice as I care for her and her welfare and of course our relationship, and this is what being someone's partner is all about, sharing things. She can take what I say as she wishes, ignore it, think about it, or take it. It is up to her.
I would rather she took a chance with her career, than stay with me and regret never doing so.
If she left me it would not be the end of the world for me.
While I don't like losing those I love, I would go on. Life goes on.
I have lived through things that not many of you out there could even imagine. I have seen the dark side of life but I don't regret that, it taught me much about human nature and now I look for the sun.
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