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well yesterday i had a very busy day and when i finally got to where i could get online i come back to finding a pm that says i had been demoted in the 21+regs guild to crew from captain!with a pm saying that i had said this:


I hope theres no hard feelings. But the guild wasn't going as we all had hoped. I understand if you are angry, and your friends are angry, But honestly, I am also. Not only did you constantly make it feel like you wanted me to leave, you left me out of the loop, and D even though we were both your crew memebers. I didn't find that fair. And since you did not actually Pay for the guild, I have decided to take it over. To me, it seemed like you were trying to make the others do your bidding, and making everyone else PAY To participate in the guild. So Again, I'm sorry if you are angry, but the guild seemed to be falling fast, and I wanted to save it. Feel free to reply, Angery or not. But you have to understand that we built this guild from scratch and we worked to hard to let it fall apart.


the killer part is i begged pet too stay in a pm she was quiting!i dont understand how i left her out when my understanding was that she didnt want to be there!thats why i didnt bug her with stuff!as far as D i talked to him at different times about stuff in the guild,and he gave me no signs of feeling left out!amelichan i never seen her on so i thought she worked alot or somthin and she wasnt on that much!i didnt mean to make any one feel left out!i was working realy hard to clean up the front page and sending out pms to people asking them to be active in the contest i had going on!i dont realy fully understand what i did wrong!?!






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ekichaba
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commentCommented on: Mon Feb 25, 2008 @ 04:47am
Well first off, I dont think thats fair at all! How the heck did they demote you, wasn't it YOUR guild?

Honestly right now, I'd get them back, I'd silently declare war or something! That is no way fair or just.

Though, one thing, if they all felt the same way, then they probably always felt that way, and therefore never really were your friends in the first place.

And keeping someone out of the loop, and them backstabbing by demoting you, is just plain as this: They either got jelous of you, or they again, were never your friends to begin with.

The whole letter sounds like a childish thing to say, educated by a 14-year-olds cunning to say, "I'm sorry if your mad but...".

There's only two things you can do: Get back at them, somehow put yourself in the ownership of that guild, or two, you can simply let it go, earn gold to create another guild, and make it really popular, and really active, and then come back and invite them, shove it in their faces, and as soon as they warm up to it then you ban them from your guild if your still mad, but I would suggest never promoting them to anything even if you do do the second thing.....


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