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all im trying to do is keep these babies out of foster care and in the family me and my brother dont even talk any more cause he stole my christmas money out of my purse last year and because of it my kids got nothing for christmas!it will take a long time for me to forgive that one!but anyway!if i get custody my bro and his girl will not be allowed at my house and i dont want them no where around the kids!my family is upset with me because i feel this way!so i dont think they want me to have custody of the kids!?!i dont know what to do should i fight ,should i not fight,!?!this is going to put me in a fianacial bind the lawyer is going to cost no less then 2k but prolly more!i dont know what to do!how is this going to effect my kids im worried to death right now aand dont have no one to talk too about this!nobody understands where im coming from!!!!! cry confused stressed sweatdrop sad

Posted by: roger3737 Tue Mar 11, 2008 @ 03:08pm

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ekichaba
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Commented on: Wed Mar 12, 2008 @ 01:35am


	I dont have an understanding from your situation, but I can see it through your eyes. This sounds like the most ridiculous predicament, you want to help your bro's kids, and your family's pratically slapping you for it....thats just so...retarded!!! I'd be so upset, and honestly, because of my temper, if I were you I'd be fighting like the devil to get those kids... So, I think you should fight, those kids dont deserve to be ripped away from family when they have family to go to. It's just not right, it might screw them up or something, who knows, but either, way, you should fight in my opinion... Of course, you'll have to consider financial costs, what will you do when you have more people in your house, more people to feed, put into school, ect. You would certainly need to have a very steady and good job...plus, you'd have to think about how your kids would feel about having their cousins move in with them. If they get along, they might just occassionally get into fights, but if they already hate eachother, than you might just be creating the biggest stress bomb ever, sides the fact they might quickly take in the 'Who's your favorite kid?' factor. But thats all in the extremes. I still say fight....

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