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Dyannx
The Group Dynamic
In every group of friends, or as modern culture calls them "clicks", their is always the "group dynamic" which is the way the group interacts along with customs and cycles. In every gropu their is always attraction between people because lets face it, thats life. neutral
It always happens and is interesting to watch because more and more everyone in the group realizes whats going on and it almost becomes a soap opera. It's entertaining at first but then the self realization comes with the thought of the repercussions if sed event happens. It usually ends up with bad results such as friends choosing sides, or the group splitting up over just 2 people... which in perspective seems pretty stupid and a waste of a friendship circle (click).

The last situation i can think of in a group dynamic is the "like" aspect. And if you couldn't tell it is when two friends in a group like each other and nothing happens but flirting, or one friend liking another but the other a) doesn't notice or b) knows and as previously said flirting commences. I've seen and dealt with these scenarios in my group and not to any point of irony but I'm in a rut right now. So take these words of what i call "Wisdom" and attempt to restore, bring back together, or just simply try to "go for the gold" yourself in your group.

These thoughts are not set in solid and never will be because group dynamics change all the time due to the kind of people, or the nature of the people in the group. As for my thoughts are based on experience and television(lol).

I think this rant is helpful to me and me only because they are my words, but by all means help yourself to them. The next rant will probably be shorter and less though out but you never know ninja
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