Men are twisted and full of everything. When your chasing them and telling them you love them, They think to themselves "Oh, here's another chick i now know how to keep dangling on me". When you chase them and chase them, you hit a couple bumps that make you wonder "This is for real, i have a chance to be with him". You sometimes hit those "other" Bumps where you think "I should give up and stop. It's all a lie". Mixed feelings can cause this. And it will. But once you actually hear it enough and know you have to let go, They'll stop and think "Why isn't she chasing me anymore? What did i do? Where did i go wrong". They'll miss you being there and realize it's a mistake. You were there when they cried, you were there when they needed someones shoulder. You were there to comfort them when needed. Men soon realize We women aren't toys or games. were not you pawns in a board game and some of us WILL give up. We reach that limit enough to know when it's time to stop. We take control of it and we end it. If you love someone enough to say it to them, and in return you get nothing but your own tears. Then stop trying. I hate to sound like the one out of all people to say this wall of text but we all know it. I've heard it from enough people to realize what i wanted so bad, i will never get. I'm not mad, and I'm a bit upset. But some things aren't meant to be and i now understand. No one's perfect, and no one should hide the fact there scared to admit it. But that one moment, that moment you feel "I can't let go" once you do, you'll feel like weightless air. Everyone tries, and no one should feel like it was a waste. I will never ever put a man before my family and friends, because even though you might die old with your lover, your family and friends will ALWAYS be there. they can't leave and never come back, because once you make them close, there stuck like glue. I hate to see my friends and family work for something unreachable. Same for men, we woman can sometimes do it, but it's more of a 80% males to 20% females who do it.
Gina, we both know the feeling. He'll come back to you one day and when he does just like you told me to do, Push his a** aside because your GONE.
Love is something to keep close, but don't keep it to close to your heart, once it breaks free, your heart will shatter into billions of pieces that will take forever to heal.
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i love you <3