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Treating the people you love like crap, betraying them, leaving them and the funny thing is that this is consider normal.
Ladies first: You need to stop being a b***h. It is NOT OKAY to ask a guy (THAT'S TRYING TO DATE YOU) to help you judge a man you like. That's called cruelty, the equivalent of asking person you just stabbed to stab themselves again. Guys who are to kindhearted to call you out, really do like you. It is NOT OKAY to get angry at a guy that YOU rejected when you see him having fun with another lady. Just so you know we all know who you are on sight when that happens, so take the negative s**t somewhere else. It is NOT OKAY to have poor judgment. Picking a guy you know is going to use you and dump you before the month is over. What happens is that you get in your head that "all guys are the same." Here is a tip stop picking the same guys. It is NOT OKAY to lie. If you lied to someone about where you were or who you were doing, that makes you something you're not... If you thought it wasn't wrong when you did it, why would lie about it. (Makes sense doesn't it.) This way the guy thats trying to talk to you absolutely knows where you're coming from and he'll know if you're not into him. To say anything less than the truth would make you a b***h that likes stringing guy along. It's not my business what kind of person you brought to your apartment one day .....:Stare: and practiced french kissing with, just don't lie about it, or make up some bullshit story. Hell say "its none of your business," and he'll back off.. Problem solved.
Guys: Stop thinking with the wrong head. It is NOT OKAY to be an a**. Don't be an a** to your girlfriend or wife, granted some girls may want that. (Don't say a single word girls, you all know it's true.) Even though your girlfriend is use to the typical a**, doesn't mean you have to be an a**. Give her something better than what she had. It is NOT OKAY to be a yes man. Help her out, let her know she has a friend, but after the 3 or 4 time stop. Despite your feelings for her It's not okay to constantly say yes. Girl: hey hold my stuff while I go up north without being financially stable (just to get myself check out.) Guy: yeah Girl : hey can you do me a favor Guy: Yeah Girl: hey Guy: yeah, yeah ,yeah. And so on. (The whole time she does this, she know you have feelings for her.) That makes you a whipped dog. It is NOT OKAY to cheat and or lie. Like I said i the previous section with the girls I'm not judging, it's your business if you want to cheat on your girlfriend, just be honest about it, don't lie. I personally think cheating is for losers, cheating and lying about it is for short d**k losers. Lying is just a weak attempt at you trying to be someone or something you know you're not. If you don't think you did anything wrong then be honest or say to your girl friend "it's none of your business." If you knew it was wrong to begin with and still did it anyway then you're stupid, really stupid.. And you still need to be honest. It is NOT OKAY be a coward. One of the things I hate most is a man who blows his brains out because he can't handle the responsibility. A man who runs from a committed relationship for NO REASON and abandons his girl friend, who probably has his child now. It is NOT OKAY to switch No with yes. "No" means "NO!" If she tells you she doesn't like you then you're done. She either means "I secretly still want you to come after me and pay attention to me because no one else will" Which is a ******** stupid game to begin with, and shouldn't even be an option.(yet it is) Or she means "NO!"
Other people: Like in any war there are those who aren't on either side, left out, or just wants peace and happiness for everyone.Still those same people are caught in the crossfire and hurt. These people can male or female they just wants to help you, they refuse to play in this war. But every now and then something will happen and these people will get hurt by someone lashing out at them (just because they are there..) There is almost nothing I find more aggravating than a loser who lashes out at the very hand that trying to keep them from going over the edge. You're brave people, but you have to know when those people you are trying to help are a lost cause. ( I know you all wont give up on them. So fight the good fight.)
Oh Me? "Why would I post this?" "Am I someone who has been wronged by a lover or would be lover?" No, I wasn't smile (yeah in my early years, but I grew past soon after.)
This life of yours, this war of love, is a book I'm reading and I don't like the way the story is heading.I'm merely reaching out to you, the people, the authors of this book in the hope you'll change the story line. Plus I'm already spoken for. TTFN XD
A little tiny advice for the guys and girls. Make up your mind, don't do the stupid hot and cold thing. You either like a person or you don't. Don't be all over a person one moment (feeling on them, hugging on them in a way normal friends shouldn't, making provocative moves around them, etc.) to I can't stand them.(if you don't want the attention, don't make the signals.) If you are making the signals and he or she is ignoring them, then back off.
You know the line between friendship and partnership, don't cross it for any other reason than a partnership. In short, make sure you know what you want.
b.l.Tiger · Sun Mar 04, 2012 @ 07:57am · 0 Comments |
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