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llama8o8
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Perfect, pretty, gutless and cute
Looks

What's the point of em?

Is there a good thing to being pretty?

Why are people so drawn to looks?

And is it truly the outside they're talking about when they someone says you're beautiful?


Or do they mean you're beautiful all around?

You're a good person?

Good people can have an ugly shell

but those inner beautiful qualities will make their outside something beautiful as well

And such can do the opposite...an evil personality will make such disgusting outsides

This is just a shell...what's so special about it?


Why does being called "pretty" bother me so much?

Why do I hate the whole aspect about looks?

Personality means so much to me..because without a good soul..you're left with some pretty skin...but it can't do a thing for you

Should I be happy that people think I'm pretty?
Or should I be indifferent?

Should I think that's all they care about? When I know it's not?

What the hell is the point of calling someone pretty?! And why does it bother me!?

And do girls treat guys the same in that category? Are they supposed to?

Are they supposed to say "Love, you're the handsomest guy I've ever seen?"

How lame does that sound D:

Guys can do SO much for a girl's self confidence...

Can girls do the same?

Can I do the same? It feels so wrong and fake when I try....
But it's not fake when I say it...
No one I love can ever be ugly..ugly is evil and hate

You are beautiful inside and out..I truly think this

But to say it..it feels fake and I feel shallow..as if looks are all I care about

It makes me disgusted with myself

And because I react that way..I can sometimes receive it that way

Is my looks all that matter? No..I know that's not true

I know...really I do

What's my reaction supposed to be?

What IS THE POINT OF LOOKS?

WHAT IS THE POINT OF TELLING SOMEONE THEYRE BEAUTIFUL?

Is it to make them smile and to assure their confidence is never down?

Maybe it really is that simple...

They're pointed out so that we can smile and be comfortable with ourselves

Because surely if the topic wasn't touched then we'd soon start to doubt ourselves...would we not?

I would...knowing me I would....


The answer to things is always so simple

~We will all soon come to an end~






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Wonder Cherry
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comment Commented on: Sun Sep 03, 2006 @ 01:04am
I wish I could agree with you, but then I'd be a hypocrite. xD

I WANNA think like that. D: I mean, I DO think like that.
Cept on certain situations. xD

I love compliments on mah looks, because I rarely get them. ;w;

BUT UM, YEAH. Dx


comment Commented on: Sun Sep 03, 2006 @ 01:28am
Sometimes I think that's all people care about it and it bothers me too.

But, what are you gonna do? It's not like you can make them stop caring about looks. The important thing is if you dont base everything on looks and if you look past it. Knowing you did that will make you feel better about yourself, your relationships, friendships, and life overall.
Sure, some people wont look past it and will be suckers for a pretty face, but some people cant help it, y'a know?
If a person is insecure they feel good when they're told they're beautiful. It feels good to know somebody finds you attractive. Not only inside but out too. And who hasnt seen a person in the streets and thought: "Wow, he or she is really beautiful."?
It's human nature, right?



Bik lusterson
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Oren the Brave
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comment Commented on: Mon Sep 04, 2006 @ 02:30pm
I personally just take 'em as compliments. It's a lot better than being intentionally dissed, ya? gonk


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