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Okay, I have a pressing problem. I've known for quite some time now that I have a stalker in school. I talked to Adam about it some times before and he reckons that the boy just has a crush on me. Well, since I don't understand boys very much I agreed with him and just let myself be all nice. I don't like hurting people or being mean you see...well I had a revalation today!

Here's the story...

My friends and I have this 2 hour break in between our classes you see. It really is annoying but it makes for a good chat session in the canteen. At first we just talked about how the classes were and about our teachers...you know, normal boring school stuff. After a while, we were joined by this friend of ours. At first we were talking about our futures and then after that we started talking about psychics. Now this is where the trouble all began. One of my cloase friends told us about this very weird guy in one of her classes. She said that he thought he could tell peoples fortunes and that he tried to tell her hers. She was asking my psychic friend if this was true or not. While she was describing him, she told all of us that this guy apparently had this huge crush on me. At first I suppose I was a little flattered since I didn't know the guy at all and he admired me. So it was okay.

My psychic friend then starts telling us about how this guy was annoying and weird and that he knew him too. This also came as not really much of a surprise. The thing was this. I eventually found out that I had, in fact, actually met this boy before. He was the one who suddenly started talking to me while I waited for our car in front of the school gates. xp This was also the guy who tried to walk with me to my class and always appears suddenly. Consequently because of this I had also started avoiding him best I could, but I was nice when we did talk, more because I don't like being rude or mean that because I wanted to be nice. sweatdrop I know that seemed a bit mean...but well wouldn't you think it strange that this person you hardly know starts popping in and out and suddenly sitting next to you when you're alone? It was creepy... stressed

Anyway, they all seemed surprised because they remember I had mentioned all of these incidents to them before already. What also seemed very disturbing is apparently, he planned to court me even after I said I had a bf? stressed

Okay now here's the thing. A few weeks ago also, I had recieved some mail on my friendster account from a person I didn't know. It said something along the lines of "you're such a disappointment...etc etc..." I don't know because I didn't read any more of it. I thought he just made a wrong send or something so I asked him who was he but got no reply. A few days after that incident, I got a deluge of mail from him saying that I wasn't who he thought I was or some junk like that. And he then proceeded to insult me by calling me names. stressed scream I deleted them all without looking at the content and proceeded to block this strange psycopath person.

Anyway, while we were talking I mentioned this to them and they confirmed my worst thoughts. gonk That guy who had been sending me mail anonymously in Friendster.com was actually him as well! I was so angry! I then also finally found out why he said all those things. He saw the pictures I had with my bf there and I suppose it enraged him? gonk rolleyes I don't know why as I told him once before I HAD A BF! Now I was really mad at that. I also remembered he called me names which I definately do not deserve! scream

At this they also confirmed that he was an obsessed stalking weirdo psycopath and that I should definately avoid him from now on. She told me thought that he told her he was "over" me. WELL I DARNED HOPE SO! scream

Anyway, I am not going to take that name calling sitting down! I will do something about it! scream But I don't know if I should or what I should do. Should I send him hate mail? Yell at him when I see him? Slap his crazy face to kingdom come?

Hmmm...advice? ninja