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Is it a bad thing.. ..to be in love with your best friend? I want to go back home so bad.. I know that's where I belong and those are the people I belong with. Not here, and not now. But if I do go back I'm afraid I might make a stupid mistake. He knows how I feel, but he's only slightly bi and favors women over men. I didnt have much of a chance anyways. I never really realized how much I felt before I moved. I mean before, I saw him every day of my life, spent all the time I could with him. Talked for hours. I never had the chance to actually miss him before. Ugh. Lovely stress. Im gonna have to tell him eventually. Some help/advice/words/ANYTHING would be nice right about now. <3 Lune

Posted by: faggy muffin Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 05:18am

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 05:27am


	I'd just tell him, really... I told my boyfriend how I felt, and Saturday will be our 5 month anniversary! : D And if he declines, then you know he isn't the one for you. No biggie, life comes and goes. And I'm around if you need any help! : D <3 ~~The_Martyr~~

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 05:28am


	I don't have any advice to offer because...i'm just stupid but i think it's sweet that you love you're best friend. I mean, i don't understand the kind of love you have but i know i miss my best friend a lot because she was so close to me <3 but that's still very sweet <3

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 05:34am


	Its not a bad thing. Love hits you at the oddest times. You should tell him. But think out your words carefully beforehand. Make him feel your sincerity so that he knows it not just a crush, but the real deal. That happens alot... Not knowing that you care about someone until its too late. So, tell him while you have the chance, hun. It will be better if you don't wait forever, because you might lose your chance with him.

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 05:34am


	aWw! I would push him and keep on telling him that i like him... cause then your just gonna annoy him... especially if he favors women over men...so dont throw yourself [: i know what you mean about not belonging in someplace but for now make the best of it.... and when the time is right then go to georgea... and dont stress. [:

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 05:36am


	yo i am bi and i am picky but i would have to say you look sly and i like the look, i would definatley be stoke if i was you friend, you should just let him know

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 06:12am


	Awww, it's not a bad thing at all. glomps I wish I could give you some good sound advice but really, I'm a total idiot in this area of life. XD What I will give you is my support though, as much as I can give you through the internet. ^^ You can PM me anytime about anything if you want or need to. <333 I hope things go well for you!!

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 07:06am


	Hello Mr.Robot... I say you need to judge if you're willing to risk the friendship. I say hint at it alittle, try making a few suttle moves and test his reactions. Or if you really just don't feel like going to all the trouble try and explain it to him. Tell him how you feel and you would like to try dating if he's comfortable with it. Just remember if this is all too much for him just give him space but don't let him run away. I know it's scary though hug Then again I'm pretty distant about all of this so if my advice sucks feel free to ignore. I think I love you

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 07:11am


	Hey, Coming from someone who thinks they found 'the one' a bit recently I have to say go for it. You never know what you are missing and it'll haunt you for the rest of your life if you don't. There will alway's be bad and good relationship's so however this one works out, it's for a reason... as in me saying to myself... "Going through all that abuse finally brought me to the one person who's ever made me truly happy." Good Luck and i'm alway's around if you need to chat. <3 - Rei

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 11:04am


	Y o u - s h o u l d - t e l l - H i m - n ___ n W h o - k n o w s - h e - p r o b l y - l i k e s - y o u - t o o . But you dont want to hurt your friendship... ? ? ? Its a tough question, Just do what you think is best n ____ n - I - t y p e - l i k e - t h i s - w h e n - i m - i n - o n e - o f - m y - h y p e r - m o o d s , D o n t - m i n d - m e .

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 11:25am


	I don't know what I can say. sweatdrop But I do know what it's like to part with a best friend. I would tell my best friend everything so since this guy is YOUR best friend. maybe you should just tell him next time you talk to him. I dunno. It's really up to you. smile

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 01:33pm


	I know the feeling. Not being able to tell the person you love about how much they mean to you. I think the one thing that hinders most relationships is the embarrassment or uncertainty about telling someone your true feelings. Just know that if you continue to be afraid of rejection, then you'll never know if he would've said yes. If he means that much to you I'm sure you'll find a way heart

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 03:04pm


	Ah, that's so sad. =[ I hate relationship problems. They're so painful. I can't relate to this exact problem, but I do think I know the stress. I hope things get better for you... ~H~

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 08:26pm


	i would just tell him... you never know... he might feel the same... i dont know... somethings work out and some dont.. the only thing we can do is hope... not pray... that bull s**t... anyway... i hope everything works out for you and i hope that only good things shall come... especially because bad things suck... but yea... i may not know you very well... or at all... but i still care... i care about you, and how you feel... much love <3 Saphire

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 08:52pm


	I fell in love with my best friend...then he went home.....forever...it sucks.....but I still love him.... Good luck! <3 kara

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 10:15pm


	Its bad to love your best friend. It dose thing to you. Stay away from loving your best friend. Or just loving friends. Its best to look out side the box.

Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 10:36pm


	wat i think you should do is call him tell him how you feel about him an ask him if he would go out with you

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Commented on: Wed Oct 25, 2006 @ 11:39pm


	Uhh... I don't know if you really care, but I've been in sort of the same situation. If you'd like to talk about it I'd being willing to spit out my stuff... But I don't know if I would help too much.

Commented on: Thu Oct 26, 2006 @ 02:12am


	good luck xp

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Commented on: Sat Oct 28, 2006 @ 07:01pm


	Well, I can't offer any advice being that I turn 16 in 2 days and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. redface I'm not good with people. sweatdrop But I really hope it works out for you.

Commented on: Sun Aug 05, 2007 @ 07:22pm


	... No comment. I think this may have been covered somewhere in Ryan Sosa's advice column however. gonk

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