I feel this pain so deep in my heart, it is love and love can hurt sometimes, although poets would tell you that love conquers all, Love has many different things that make it so, let me explain..........
Pain is one of the biggest parts of love, it is the part that makes us want love and make us sad when we don't feel love for someone or to be feeling that we are loved.
Jealousy is a Natural part of wanting to keep love and making sure nobody steals love from you, it is important to be jealous sometimes, jealousy reminds you of how lucky you are to have love and how much the one you love means to you. Jealousy must be controlled and only ever be possessed in small amounts as too much can turn love to hate.
Hate is also part of love, if you hate someone if means you care enough about them to have any emotions, I would rather hate someone than not care, it is when you stop caring that there is no ground for reconciliation.
There are so many other things that go in to making up Love, we all find them out in the end, just sometimes we have to find out the hard way, like I have and will continue to. I recently hurt the one I Love. She felt Pain and Hatred because of my Jealousy. We work hard to make things work because we love each other, maybe the fact that sometimes we get Jealous and feel pain and from time to time, hate each other, means that our love will survive, because every time we get back together, we accept that we aren't perfect, but we try our best because we love each other.
Maybe sometimes it takes a fight to remember what you feel for someone, the way you feel when you don't have them any more, then you realise that the pain you feel when you think it is over, is far worse then any of the other pain that you felt to make you argue in the first place.
But hey, what would I know, I am hardly a Psychologist, I just know the way that I feel, the fact that I wait eagerly for the day when I can go and Buy a beautiful Ring that I can put on her finger and ask her to be my Wife...........
For Better or Worse.........
In Sickness and Health........
Forever.......
And Ever...........
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