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Wow, you're awefully depressing in this thing, y'know that? Ah, but who am I to talk, I'm always depressing, lol! xd sweatdrop Yeeeah... You need to, uh... Jeez, I must have SOMETHING useful in my little well of advice. Well, if you ever come up with some real good solution for depression, you let me know, 'cause that well's dried up. Mmm, bad metiphores... Well anyway if you're friends can be "stolen" you might concider that they weren't really friends at all. I have three catagories for friends. People you know and talk to sometimes and call them "friends" just for lack of a better word, fair-weather friends who enjoy your company but will drop you like a ton of bricks as soon as something happens, and then true friends who like you for who you are and put up with your flaws and try to pick you up when you're down. There are a few inbetweens though. Molly is a true friend to me, but Ari balances delicately between a true friend and a fair-weather friend. But really...there are few friends to be had, so just be glad you saw they weren't real friends as soon as you did. No sense wasting your life trying to make people, who don't really like you, happy. Yeah...you'll find real friends someday if you keep looking. Just try not to screw it up. DO think about their feelings before you speak. "Will you go out with me so I'll forget about my ex?" = Not a good thing to say.

Good plan.