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A journal made out of boredom for bored people. :]
Dear all random friend requests...
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No I will not become your friend. Why? Because I have no clue who you are. I absolutely hate it when somebody adds you and then never talks to you again.

I remember once I got this random comment from this girl. So I reply to it and start a small convo. About 5 comments later she asks to be my friend. Of course I accept, because she seemed like a nice person. Unfortunately once I added her, she never talked to me again.

People get this through your head, friends are not things you collect. They're special people. Not just a worthless item you forget about in 5 seconds.

I seen people around Gaia with like 100 friends, who they don't even talk to! They're just collecting them as if they were just rocks.

About a few days ago I got this PM from this guy asking to be my friend. I said to him I don't add people who I don't really know. So the guy actually says "Sorry, ok, you want like where I live, What I like....things like that.. " No! That's not I want, I don't want stalker info. A friend is someone who understands you, someone that makes you happy, someone who's willing to spend time with you. A friendly "Hi" could easily turn into a small convo and long lasting friendship. You don't just go up to people asking what they want to know.

So yeah, that's it for now. Sorry it's kinda long. :/


See I'm not mean. I censored your names. :] | UPDATE!! : Okay, I understand now. It's not really possible to talk to ALL your friends. Sorry, I was being kinda being harsh. ://
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Qii Yue
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commentCommented on: Thu Apr 19, 2007 @ 10:20pm
mrgreen I understand what you are saying bc I wanted Meshirusama to be your friend because you talk to her everyday mrgreen


commentCommented on: Fri Apr 20, 2007 @ 08:49pm
Wow, you actually read it! I'm so happy!

:'D



Miss Pixelated
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Mimicko
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commentCommented on: Sat Jul 05, 2008 @ 10:20pm
Okay, I have to admit. I was being a bit harsh here. x[ But still, after this journal post, I never ever got another rando friend request since a long time. x]

So yeah.. Apologies to those offended.
I myself have done rando friend requests before though..
I have a explanation for them though..

It all started when Gaia started getting sponsers and quests. Because mainly of the crowded Skittles worlds/OhMyGaia application I kept clicking on those yellow +'s and clicking "Add as Friend" by accident. Meh.. :/


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