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Throughout one's life one makes many journies in which one discover's his or her innerself and what he or she wants in life. I've been down that route countless of times, and I thought I knew what I wanted in life. I've come to see everything in a whole new perspective and realized that there's more to it than I believed. I found a sweet boy with whom I fell for faster than I imaged. I thought I could hide my feelings and distant myself from him. The harder I tried, the faster I grew attached to him. Earlier in our relationship, around our second month, he told me that I had to open up. It was really difficult for me at that time since I just finished leaving a guy I dated for 3 years. He told me to treat it as if he was gonna leave soon or as if his time was being counted down. Almost towards the fourth month he tells me a week before my finals that he's moving this year. I felt really sad, but I see that he really wants to leave and be with his biological father. Even if it makes me miserable, I won't stop him or hinder the process because if he's happy I'll be happy as well. Although it may not show on the outside, I'll be happy on the inside. I really like him, one could almost say I fell in love for the 2nd time. I may not know what may lay ahead for me later on down the road, but when he moves out for sure in the summer of 2008 I know for a fact I'll miss him so much. Sometimes I just wished that life wouldn't be so complicated. out of all the guys I've been with and dated, he's been the only guy who was able to get into my head. I'm trying to adjust myself now to his absense, but its so hard. There are times where I want to be myself and show him a side that very few people have seen, but I end up supressing it because I'm afraid of getting hurt again. I understand that life is all about taking risks, but there are some things in which its harder to do. I really don't know what to do. I haven't told him how I feel or what I'm thinking because I don't want our relationship to interfere with his job, skool work, etc.