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I hate those ******** perfection groups, I can't believe I joined some. Those perfection groups are worthless, and a ******** disgrace. They encourage people to be vain, shallow, and look down upon people who may not be good-looking. They cause low self esteem to the kids who aren't accepted. Those perfection groups talk about "ugly" people in their forums, and even said how they should send hate mail to a girl because she had AP in her name and they thought she was "ugly." There was no reason to send her hate mail, and make her feel ugly, when infact everyone is beatiful in there own way. Mostly everyone in those groups think that they're perfect, flawless and better than the rest of society. Sorry to burst your goddamn bubble but you're not perfect, and you will never be ******** perfect. If they we're so flawless they wouldn't spend hours taking pictures just to get one that actully looks good, and then photoshop it. They must have some sort of flaw if they must photoshop their pictures. You're imperfections, and flaws are what make you beautiful. Good looks won't get you far in life with a shallow personality, which infact most of them have. You should never think you're better then anyone. Who cares if someone may not be the best looking, or can't afford the latest trend, or is a "geek" You should never judge anyone. Kids are always being outcasted and picked on because of the way they look//dress. One of my friends got beat up by a cowboy because he wore eye-liner. Also alot of people dislike me because I'm bi, and because of the way I dress//act. There shouldn't be considered a "normal" way to dress or look. I try to stand out and be different, thats what makes you beautiful. Why try to fit in with the rest of society and be a clone? I feel alot of people have an obsession with beauty and try to hard to be good-looking. People are always getting plastic surgery, or other small things such as: hair extensions, colored contacts, fake eyelashes, fake nails, diet pills, overly-done make-up, stuffing their bra, etc...to alter their appearance. You should be happy with the real you, the natural way you look. Your inner beauty is what counts. Why be fake, and alter your apperance to attract other people? Beauty isn't important, personality is. People should stop caring about looks so much, and try to better their personality and ethics. Maybe if people weren't so judgemental more people would feel this way and stop caring about looks so much. I used to be vain, and think I was better than most and thought I was cool for being in those perfection groups. Then I realized how morally wrong I was acting, and became a better person. Confucianism helped me alot. It's not a religion, theres no god involved. Alot of people today tell me how they love reading my blogs//bulletins I post and how I'm probably the most non-judgemental/down to earth person they've met; and how nice/caring I am. That makes me really happy. I've changed alot, I now put others feelings before mine, and never judge anyone by their appearance, only by their personality and ethics. Some people need to open up their narrow minds and realize they're not perfect and so wonderful like they may think. You should never judge anyone on their appearance. Would you like it if someone said something bad about you, and lowered your self-esteem? I think not. If no-one in this world was shallow, or anything of that sort; the world would be a way better place. Everyone would be happy and feel good about themselves, and everyone should feel good about themselves.
`robotsvomitoil__x Community Member 
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