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How to ignore your enemy. 1. Try to not even acknowledge this person. When you see them in the hallway, simply look the other way.
2. If you are thinking about this person, tell yourself to stop and come up with something else (ex: school, significant other, sports etc). Remember, if you are ignoring them, there should be no reason to think about them. Don't let them take over your life. If you spend all your time thinking of your enemy, you won't be helping anything.
3. Once this process continues for a while, the person will begin to fade from your mind. You won't have a problem ignoring them anymore, because you simply don't acknowledge them.
4. If you have classes with the person, look at the teacher when they are called on. Don't make eye contact with them, as they will probably give you an evil look. If s/he does a group project in front of the class, clap when the finish along with the rest of your class. If you pout, and ignore them, it's showing your enemy that you hate them, and making them think that they've won. Act as if their cold shoulder doesn't bother, and like you don't even see them.Tips. * Before trying any of this, try to see why you're not their friend. It could have just been a silly argument from when you were younger. Many of your enemies from preschool could now be your friends, if you just get to know them.
* If it's a member of the 'popular' group that hates you, shrug it off. They will almost always hate someone, and you shouldn't be bothered by it.
Warnings. * Never resort to physical abuse if you are threatened by this person.
* If you are really having a rough time, ask an adult for help before it becomes bullying.Resource of Information
 LothirielLavellan · Thu Feb 28, 2008 @ 11:49pm · 0 Comments |
