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Through the eyes of the Tiger
My views and my life
I need to grow a spine...Any time anyone raises their voice to me, I back down immediately and get all nervous/can't talk/etc....what in the world is wrong with me!?

I got yelled at today at work and I turned into a big bottle of nerves...why does this job make me so nervous?

Wait I know why, because I don't have a spine and everyday someone yells at me. ...and as said before I can't really handle very well people yelling. I know what part of it is. I have this issue with wanting to make everyone happy. When I can't fix something I can't help them.

Plus this job is making me hate people...I don't want to hate people. I promised I would stay until Aug. 9th...can't I just....quit tonight? but I need the money and I can't promise another job I will be here for the school year as well...so who in the world would hire for a month!?

Hopefully I grow a spine, at least for the next month. *big sigh* Well that is all for today.






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valkyrie_lisa
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commentCommented on: Tue Jul 03, 2007 @ 04:37pm
I'm the very same way. I'm a total people pleaser, and I hate being yelled at. I wish I could give you some worthwhile advice, but I haven't found a solution. So all I can do is sympathize. heart


commentCommented on: Wed Jul 04, 2007 @ 04:58pm
Thanks, at least I know I am not alone. heart



Kithandra
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