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Ok I want to get one thing out ladies, it's been confirmed that if guys ask what's wrong or if something bothering you? And you say nothing is wrong, we guys are just going to assume that nothing is wrong...
Sure we nice guys we keep asking nicely because we know you, because we really do care about you, but if you're going to jump down our throats when ever we ask or display any sort of concern for you. I don't see why we even should bother..... But yet and still we try, even though we tell you "the guy you're going back to" or the guy you're dating next is the same as the last guy you still go for them...... I mean not all women are hormone driven, some actually use their head. Women aren't the only ones. guys do the same thing. Just when I ask guys if something is wrong they don't get angry and they give me the freaking truth.....
There are many people out there that are hormone driven and don't even realize it.... There should be at least one time you think with your head and not the one between your legs (both genders). It's been scientifically proven that woman tend to go for the guys that seem more out of control, cute, strong everything buy reliable and actually strong. Then later in life after your marriage gone or if it even gets that far woman are more prone to settle down with a some what less attractive more reliable male(after they already given birth to the douche bag's son/or daughter...... I see this every freaking day and it's getting annoying,
I see couples who prove this study right ever 5 mins From abused partners to sugar daddy s.. ...... What I'm trying to say it's not good to be driven by your own instincts and hormones at least not for a long time, and especially not in love. In the end all you feel like is crap because you ask yourself "why are you with him/her." and all you do is drive away the very people whose trying help you...
I wouldn't be talking about this if it was only the hormone driven idiots involved, but it's not. The people who get hurt are the people who try to warn you about that guy or girl that's not good for you, You drive away the very person that you go to sad, crying or mad because an argument you and your partner had. It's your children who has to hear you talk trash about your slut of a girl friend or your wife beater of an ex boyfriend that left you. It's them who has to deal with the choices you make...... And this all happen because two naive hormone driven Homo sapien!!! couldn't ******** differentiate between love and sex.
But Tadeo, people need sex, people have urges, and sex is just sex their is no love involved. Well that is very surprising. Here my rebuttal "I'm clear ******** proof you don't have to act on those urges" (I'm not holier than thou, but I try to make the right choice.) I'm not saying don't act on those urges, I'm not saying don't have sex. just try to think it through. And 2 if sex is just sex then what else is there?
Let me put it in something that's visible, that you can grasp. "What physical difference would there be between your girl friend and your wife, what physical difference would there be between your boyfriend and husband?" I'm don't mean something like love, and wedding ring ... What would be the one thing that you know that no one else had from your husband/wife....
You getting it now right that's why I consider sex sacred? Anyone can say you're beautiful or they love you. Anyone can buy you a fancy ring that someone else bought. But only one person, only you will know whats sex is like with the one you love. Thats just my opinion on sex. (There are a lot more deeper reasons why sex is sacred, but this is the only one that other people can understand.) No offense I don't want any women coming up to my wife and saying I know what your husband is like in bed, or the size of it.....(it's huge by the way ladies lol had to make a joke.).
I'm not saying go for the guy that's good looking, I'm not saying go for the guy who you can rely on and take care of you. I'm saying go for the guy you freaking love. Not hormone driven doggy love. (which is ok as long as you know what you're doing.) I'm talking about the kind of love that your he/she knows everything about you and vise verse.
b.l.Tiger · Mon Sep 26, 2011 @ 10:31pm · 0 Comments |
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