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It goes from bad to worse but there is a bright side yay!
about a week ago is when this happend. I had been looking down where my inlaws live for a job for almost 2 months and every single day I get naged and yelled at by my mother in laws husband. (note this isn't my wifes fauther her parents divorced a long time ago and they both remaired) . so here I am in the living room and mary (my mother in law) ask alex to bring her a cup on the floor. so I figure I'll bring it to her. she tells me no make him do it. so I talk to alex and he agrees to bring her the cup. yay right.... wrong. after she gets the cup she says thank you. nice right? alex (my son by the way) says yeah ok. but that didn't seem to please mary so she demands he say your welcome and grabs him by the arm and wont let him leave untill he says it. now I had stepped back into the living room to get something and thats when chuck (mary's husband) storms in and starts yelling at alex to say your welcome. alex starts crying and yelling stop stop ouch. and I walk in to see him holding alex by the coller of his shirt and violantly shake him. all the time yelling in his year "you will show her respect!" me being raised a completly diffrent way than what aparently chuck had gone through was (and still am) shocked and outraged at the treatment of my boy. first if they wanted to discaplin him they should have come to me for that. but noooooooo they had to pump thier ego's by jerking alex around. burning_eyes scream scream scream domokun I told alex to come to me and he came right away and held onto my leg for dear life. after I knew he was safe I told him to go to his room and tell mommy that daddy said for them both to stay in there. at this point I had a decision to make let it go or do something about it. thats when the holy fire of god came down and touched my lips and god help them cause he's the only one that can now. needless to say after argueing with mary and chuck (by the way mary said "it wont affect him or scar him at all he'll be fine" OMFG WTF?!! are you out of your fing mind? he had freaking nightmares every night! ) I told chuck that if he ever touched my son that way again I would personlay kick is a**! then he threates me harm and my family harm and tells us to get our things and leave cause we were no longer welcome. oh and the kicker here is they claime to be christans. dont make me laugh. I know what a christan is cause I've seen powerful men of god do amazing things and chuck and mary both only talk the talk and go to church so they can somehow feel better about themselves. I mean what ever helps ya sleep at night. so that night running on adrinalen I paced my car called my dad he came down and I packed his car full. then me and my family left of cours after telling them you'll never see us again and that they have lost all rights to ever see alex ever again. this is a wound that isn't going to heal for a long long long long long long time. and only god himself can reapir what has happend. I'm up here at my dads and I've got some iterviews soon also we are going to help my mom and dad fix up there house to make it more livable. more to come as it develops
Jamin.
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