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I don't know if it's right of me to do this or not, but I will...just for old time's sake. :3

It was Abraham Lincoln who once said this "After I put down the reigns of this Administration, I only want to have one friend left. And that friend is inside myself."

See... Friends are part of your everyday life, and can bring you both happiness, and hardships. They bring you happiness when they share with you good times, and playing and fun. Hardships occur when they're in a personal sturggle and ask for your support and warmth. It's a give-and-take on the everyday life, in which we feel accustomed to and most of the time enjoy. Too much of either one and get distant, because it is in our nature to part ways with things that don't do us good for our own emotional sake. Even so, what's really important is that you have the conviction, strength, and character of a good friend. It has always been in you. Peiji only made you realize it with her own personality and good will. I know it's hard to face up to your mistakes, but what makes a good friend a great one is that you are responsible and mature enough to accept you did it. Sure, running away from the problems is only a temporary solution, but it's not the answer. Facing up to your deeds, and knowing that while you cannot do it all, you shouldn't give up on the one good thing you always do makes you that much greater as both a person, and a friend... and I'm pretty sure Peiji would approve of that. 3nod

Making ourselves feel horrible over our own deeds and machinations is merely our guilt, showing us that the way of life we approve, cherish, and always wish to follow isn't exactly what we're doing. Most of the time, we feel so let down at our own actions because we deem ourselves unworthy of what we have achieved... but that's merely a facade we use to decieve ourselves. To grant punishment we deem worthy of such un-rightgeous deeds that we do. To subdue our own selves in our struggle because what we do isn't what our calling says is right. Don't put yourself down, Lull. We all go through that part of our lives more than once, because we tend to think we deserve it subconsiously. As dreamers, we tend to live for the future, hoping what we do now will continue on forever, and live regretting deeds that we did in the past that didn't bode as we had hoped. It's not bad being a dreamer, but you need to live for every moment in the present. If something doesn't go as we had hoped, then it's something which we can learn from, accept and move on.

The one weakness Dreamers have is that they live regretfully for their mistakes while hoping that the future will help heal the wounds. It's probably the one thing we both have in common. (^^; ) To fix this, you just need to realize that what good you do outweigh the bad, always. We just think it's the other way around because our regrets makes us worry and hesitate when we want to take another step. What you have going for you is that you're willing to face them with a clear mind, and a good heart, and that you also have friends that support you no matter what you do. Whether it is misplaced promises, to achieving dreams, they always stick by you, even though we do not see it that way in our own minds. :3 Make sure to remember that next time you're feeling down and in the dumps, kay?

-Love, Shiro <3

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