Love an intense feeling of deep affection
I'm a firm believer that love doesn't just happen. You don't just see someone across the room and feel love for them. You may wonder about them, hormones may shoot through your body and around your system. Biochemicals don't create love though, in my opinion, they just don't. They're filling something up in your body, telling your body that you need physical contact, they push you towards love but don't form in within.
Love is something that grows within. Not chemically within but mentally and emotionally. This may just be my opinion, it may just be my own theory but it something I truly believe in. Love is like a plant. I know, this has probably all been said before. It is truly like a plant. You start with something small, a seed. Just something simple and small. Now when that seed receives water and nutrients. Like when friends hug each other, talk and genuinely care. You're helping that plant grow, that love to grow. But when that's taken all away. When the water doesn't flow, when the nutrients is gone and the sun doesn't shine. You wither, you grow weak and eventually die. Our love dies when we're not loved and we stop loving.
Love isn't this thing that just magically happens. It's something that's grown over a long period of time. It's something worked on, worked together on. And eventually that love can turn into something great, it's something that will last for a long time. You can't insta grow love, that just doesn't happen. If it does, if you try to insta grow love, it'll just wither out eventually. It'll explode, implode or just mutually die.
If you get my drift.
So if you do feel this insta love, this whole "Our eyes connected and we just knew" type of thing. I'm certain, that it'll fade away. It may wither out eventually, maybe not right away, but eventually.
Things don't just happen.
RadicalRosebud · Sun Jan 29, 2012 @ 09:21pm · 0 Comments |